You should do that and be speedy when you see these flags(ion know if it’s red anymore) but I think we do have this mechanism that tells us something ain’t right.
Most times we give love forgetting that we also need much of that love. I was the type raised with pure drama(not the loving type of fam) but still thought I was missing out on love due to the type of family I grew up in. But man, I really wasn’t missing much because each time I gave love to people with the expectation of it being reciprocated… I never did get a tiny ounce back, instead I usually got dealt the bad hand.
Now the problem isn’t about giving love instead it’s a lack that I thought I had and needed to get from others. Which I realized was the wrong approach. But once I only give without expectations, and in situations I know I won’t be doing too much that it might cost me my peace and quiet. Going extra or hurting myself just to see others happybecame a taboo. There are situations where you don't have a choice because of how important the person is to you but going extra is not something you do for everyone you meet.
This is so true in every way. I don’t even know where to start from but my eyes caught on the latter part. There are really situations where you have no choice especially when it comes to family even though I don’t think I’ve been in such a situation before.
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