RE: Dear Ade, I Couldn't Keep Quiet Anymore

I do get that. It some conservatives cultures, confessing first as a girl really undermines the value of our whole being. In my area, that's the same thing happening until today. In my opinion, as long as you're not hurting other people, that's okay. It just shows how brave you are to conquer your fears and you're being honest. Nothing wrong really with just expressing yourself. Well, he's also kind to break it softly to you.