What About Sex Education?

Hehehe..I've finally come across a topic that I would write about and show to my babies in the future.

Let me not brag too much, but my mind is telling me that my kids will be proud to have an amazing mother as myself..lol😌

I recently wrote about a similar post, where I shared about the teaching have been taught by my parents and would love to pass down to my kids and also upbringing I wouldn't want to pass down.

It's quite unfortunate that we're in a world where the word “Sex” is not meant to be spoken outrightly. Actually to be honest, In most cases, it's considered a sin. Whereas, everybody knows about it and 95% of individuals are involved in it.

Before writing on this, i decided not to just work base on my little knowledge as regarding ”Sex Education” Besides, I am still quite young too, you know.

Which made me did a quick research on what age a child should be taught sex education.
Please pardon me to divert a bit, I remembered once, coming across a video on Instagram sometime ago, where a young lady..hmm to be more detailed, she posed herself as that of a prostitute while making the video, that aside.

This young lady was explaining the importance of sex education to children, especially to christian mothers who see discussing such matters with a child as an immoral act or to be more plain a sin.

According to the lady, a growing child should already be aware of sex before the age of 13, alright I'll stop here and go back to my findings…

After scrolling through the internet, I was a little surprised about what the internet said. The first thing I saw was from age 2-3years.
Immediately i saw that,my first impression was “ahh”..lol
Like what does a 2 years old child know at all, how much more sex?

But then I calmed down o, you know why?……..alright, I'll tell you why.

The reason I think is because the world has had a drastic turn. Yeah, children nowadays have become more smarter, wiser and less ignorant than children of before..lol
Hardly can you firmly deceive a kid of today and if you have a child or children around you or by any means have a close relation with kids, you'll agree that once you've successfully deceived a kid, there's an high percentage chances of that kid not falling into same trick again and then you would have to use some other ways to trick that kid.

From their vocabulary also, you'll realize that a 2 years old kid's speech is quite audible and understandable at such a young age, and to round up with the kind of exposure we find in our world today.

In my opinion, I don't find 2 years too young to teach my kids about sex education if I notice any form of odd behavior or words coming out from their mouth.

And when I say 2 years, that doesn't mean I would pour out al the little details I know on them..oh no!

It'll be a gradual process, hint by hint.. The more you throw a hint the more they want to know, their curiosity grows and they crave to know more… I'd rather prefer my babies learning about sex from their lovely mom first than hearing it from an outsider first. I say this from my own personal experience.

Children are the most daring and very unpredictable, so I feel a sensitive topic as “sex education” should be told to them early in a proper and plain manner.