My Wedding Dreams that will be actualised.

I fell in the second category, hehe but then I've attended a lot of weddings to have an Idea of what I would love my wedding to be like.

Wedding ceremonies are always or should always be a great celebration not just because it's a great achievement morally, financially and spiritually but because it's among the celebrations that you just have one shot at ....No one ever comes back to do a second wedding with the same partner after a first one and this is why utmost care is employed and committees are set just to make sure that it is successful and smooth.

Someone once said that wedding preparations are never enough and that's very true but then proper preparation limits the disarray that might arise on the wedding day.

For my wedding ceremony whenever it comes, lol, I will really love it to be a seamless one where everything will go on smoothly and perfectly.

I for one would have loved to do a mini wedding where everything is just done in a calm venue with minimal persons in attendance but then, I know it is will never be possible because of my personality.... I know a lot of people actually and then it will be difficult to draw the line as to who should get an invite and who shouldn't so I've long ago ruled it out of my mind.

The first step in making sure my wedding goes well is making sure I am financially stable before fixing the wedding... By financially stable I don't mean I must have the whole money in the world before I fix my wedding but I mean that I must be okay enough to bring out all the expenses the wedding will cost me from my pocket and if luck finds me with little assistance from close friends and relatives but never ever going for loans or borrowing money for my wedding.

Secondly is to make sure I work with the extremes of figures while budgeting for the "Item 7".

To be honest, most weddings people term as didn't go well doesn't necessarily mean that the event weren't okay or nice but because they didn't get to eat as they though they will eat or maybe the brand of their drink wasn't available.
Hence, I will take my time and provide above the expected guests .... It's better it was remaining than that it didn't go round as there should be option for refund I guess.

Getting everything ready atleast 2days before the wedding day.
I say this because of the experience I had in one of the weddings I've gone to where the guests were already trooping in and church service was over but the decoration ladies were still running around looking for pins for their decoration.

Getting most things ready ahead of time will really help for the smooth flow of my wedding.

When all this things are in place, my dream wedding will come to pass

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• A wedding that went seamlessly well where everyone that attended had to their fill what to eat and drink

• A wedding where my wife and I will have ample time to dance our heels out.. I can't dance though 😂

• A wedding where the humour in the venue will all be joy and everyone happy

That! Is my Dream Wedding.

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