FLIRTING IS NOT CHEATING, BUT AN OVERDOSE OF IT IS CHEATING!!!!!

When there is communication between partners, solving disputes will be easy and there will also be mutual agreement from both party, that is why when it comes to relationship aspect, it is better you shine yah eye because making the wrong choice will cost you dearly....

Relationship is very hard to maintain without the wright partner but when you have the partner that understands you, your silence and also understands every gesture you make without you having to talk is the best you can have....

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Though i am not married but i have seen different movies about relationships and marriage and with my little knowledge i can boldly talk about relationship with all form of sincerity...

Thanks to @hive-naija for this beautiful topic, because they are giving me the chance to share my opinion, this weeks topic is very special because it is a general thought for all and it is titled "IS FLIRTING CHEATING".....

      IS FLIRTING CHEATING??????

We are made differently, i am talking about male and female species so what some can tolerate, others can't tolerate it..
Thinking about the topic, flirting is not cheating, they are two different words entirely..

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Cheating is when you have an extra marital affair, that is a lame man definition while flirting is a way of acting seductively towards someone to attract or gain his or her attention or to have a special type of intimacy....

Flirting is a two way side, they can both be flirting with each other because of their mutual feelings or one might be flirting with the other because of his or her interest in the other person...

To me flirting is not cheating, because me flirting with you doesn't mean i want to have you, it was just a moment of lust that made me act like that, but you can flirt to an extent, but most people don't know that too much or consecutive flirting can lead to relationship break up because when you flirt continuously, your partner won't think twice before claiming you are cheating especially when such acts is been reciprocated...

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Then your partner will be sure you are cheating, we are made to accept certain things in minimum, so when there is an overdose in flirting especially in your partners presence then he or she is bound to make such conclusion....

Talking from a male perspective, it is part of guys to flirt a bit but we tend to do overdose when we forget ourselves or get carried away, both male and female can accept bit of flirting without touches but consecutive flirt with the same person can spike a misunderstanding..

We guys think we can flirt but we don't want our spouse to even look at other guys twice not to even talk of flirting with him, i can imagine the jealous type of guys, imagine how their blood will be boiling when they even see their woman appreciating other guys where as you will do much more than that expecting her to not be pissed and when she does hers it hurts you more because that is what a female can do best, they can flirt well especially when it comes to revenge..

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I as a person don't know how to flirt with a girl, i feel very uncomfortable when flirting directly and publicly both when i am in a relationship or as a single but i can tease very well and some might call it flirting and even if it is flirting, i won't flirt when my woman is close or by my side because no matter how she is, she will feel pained when i do such, both the gentle type and hot type would be flair up inside when such thing happens especially when there is touching and glances...

When your woman isn't by your side or with you at that moment, you can flirt a little with your eyes and don't touch before there is a tangle feelings..

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As a guy, i will be very upset when i catch my partner flirting with other guys because i am a jealous type, so to prevent all this it is better not to flirt with her around and would rather have my eyes on her as she is the love of my life.....

In summary, flirting isn't cheating to a minimum but when it goes along with mutual flirt and touching oneself then it is cheating, don't place your partner below but above all things, let her happiness be your top most priority..

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In conclusion, i love my girlfriend so much, i flirt a little in her absence but when i am with her i make her my center of sight with her all around me and our love feeling new as at the first time...

So don't flirt to an overdose but to a minimal level but when your partner is around, don't look at other women but her to make the feeling mutual forever, don't take a woman's gentility and silence for stupidity, they can only accept it in minimum.....

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