"THANK YOU, I AM SORRY, I LOVE YOU" || THE THREE INGREDIENTS THAT STRENGTHENS A RELATIONSHIP

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I have never seen a perfect relationship, mine isn't perfect either but there are some attributes we should always inculcate in our relationship to make it healthier. One important thing to note is that the two people coming together in a relationship all grew up from different family backgrounds and have different upbringings, so there is no way both of you can behave in the same manner but with time, you get to understand each other better and blend where possible. Today, I bring to you the three ingredients that can spice up your relationship, I have been practicing these points and I believe they can help your relationship journey as well.

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THANK YOU
Gratitude is very important in every relationship. No matter how little a gift you receive from your partner or fiancee, learn to say thank you. As for me, I use the word "thank you" for every single thing. It could be my husband's little achievement, it could be just a little popcorn for a snack, anything you can think of, just say thank you. When you are always appreciating your partner, he or she will have the mind to keep doing more and it becomes a win-win.

I LOVE YOU

Some people especially married people found it difficult to use these words after a few years of marriage. It becomes a bit outdated because you have gotten what you craved Lolz... honestly we should always learn to remind our partner that we love them, both by words of expression or action. It could be in form of text or love-written letters. Trust me, this strengthens the bond between partners. You could decide to make it an early morning habit, whatever, just let your partner know through your expression that you love him or her both before marriage and inside marriage and so often.

I AM SORRY

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Now, this is where some men exercise their ego. They find it difficult to open their mouth and say "I am sorry". Perhaps, they feel it's the work of a woman to apologize even when they are the ones at fault. Initially, my husband was like this 😂, but I changed him through my actions. He offends me and I apologize on his behalf... Imagine, lolz. I love my peace of mind, it's a luxury to me. It doesn't remove anything from me to seek peace. I did this for some time and he started dancing to my tune till date. Whenever anyone offends each other, simply "I am sorry" heals a wound so easily and fast, rather than pilling up issues and it keeps birthing other issues. However, some men are good with apologies and that's fine. Some ladies too find it difficult to say that they are sorry instead they keep claiming who is right or wrong. I have a friend who is a typical example of this scenario, but it shouldn't be that way.

All these little things matter and shouldn't be neglected if you really want to enjoy your relationship. I drew this experience from my marriage and decided to share. I hope you get value.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME ON MY BLOG, STAY POSITIVE 👌👍

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Thanks for sharing this article. This will helps a newly married couple to keep their marriage successful. and productive.

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I wish it can my dear
I really appreciate your nice comment 👍

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Coming of age now, I think Perfection is just a word that is added to the dictionary to bring out the best in us, it's not attainable but then it can bring out the best version of us.

this is where some men exercise their ego

No be our fault sha but then we keep getting better honestly
We are learning very fast I think.... Because comparing the number of young guys that can actually say sorry to their wife and the old dads, you will see that we are progressing 😅.

Great post and great picks... We keep getting better everyday.
I go make reference to this post later because I. I need am now 😅

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Hahaha 😂😂😂
So nwa...I believe you, go ahead and make reference to it

I really wish we can act like the old dads and mum in terms of these attributes in our relationship 😂

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Relationship with a person can never be perfect, you grow and learn over time, you adjust,compromise and understand.

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Exactly my dear
It's all about daily learning and adjustment 👍

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Well I'm even thinking the generation of people we have nowadays, no be wetin dey their mind be this. They just want to have fun and replace the ones in the lives as quick as possible. Anyway, spot on, everything here just makes too much sense. Especially saying thank you.

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Hahaha.... some people in our generation today doesn't want to bend down to some realities and that's why little things bring issues in relationship 😉

Anyway, spot on, everything here just makes too much sense. Especially saying thank you.

Awwwwwn 🥰, I am blushing 😄
Thanks for believing in my points 😊👍

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I no go blame them, 30 men toasting one girl in this generation, na wetin I go blame and vice versa. Some men too stubbornness and "I am the man" no go let them swallow their ego.

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Hahaha 😂😂😂😂
My belly ooo 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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I agree with this. These are necessary ingredients that help build one's ship in life. Thanks for the reminder🤗🤗.

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This one sounds well and understandable for singles like us and we can actually inculcate this habit for sure. It’s a part of me. Especially that I am sorry. I like it. To me it’s like a keep quiet, I know you are wrong. 😂

And thank you too is great. It’s best to appreciate what people have done for us.

Thanks for sharing

With love ❤️
Pirate Q from dreemport

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Wowww
Pirate on the move 😂
Thank you so much for your nice comment ☺️

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😂 ooh. Join me ship now… or I cast you into the cold sea 😂…

Always welcomed

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That I love you part..... I really do love it when I hear partners reminding themselves even during marriage. It spice up marriage and keeps the home going.

Saying I am sorry shouldn't be hard to say, inasmuch as it isn't removing any hair from you. This three letter words can heal a broken home faster than anything but some men and women have ego that will end up destroying everything.

Thank you is something great too. No matter how little it is, the giver will always appreciate and want to do more for you.

In all, the words do not mean anything if you don't put action into them. You have to practice what you say.

Thank you for sharing a beautiful piece. I came through #dreemport

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Awwwwwn 🥰
Thank you so much princess for your addition to this post. All of these are not hard to practice but ego wouldn't allow some people, but for anyone who will inculcate it in relationship will really has less headache
Thanks for reading

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That is it. Nothing is stopping anyone from exercising those unless one has ego or pride and it doesn't go anywhere with them. It's my pleasure 😊

Good morning from my side 😁

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This is for everyone, both married and single. These three words should never be underrated. I do wonder why people find it so difficult to say "am sorry" these words won't reduce any part of us. This is a great post, much 😍

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My dear, I am sorry is a short word that heals wound
I hope people learn to use it
Thank you so much for visiting 👍

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Using the words "Thank You" all the time for every simple thing, makes it lose some of its value when it comes from you, but I argue, even with the value loss, "Thank You" is very powerful! That, and quantity is another form of quality, sometimes.

I've seen "I love you" get outdated in some couple I know. I have faith they won't come to hate each other, your second section reminded me of them.

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Whenever anyone offends each other, simply "I am sorry" heals a wound so easily and fast,

YES! But make sure to be truly wrong when you say it. Saying it while you're right isn't a good thing because it makes the other party presist in their wrong doings!

!LUV !PIZZA

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Wow....what a great insight from this comment. Well, I understand your point but then, when you relate with people, you get to study them and know how best to approach them and get results when an issue arises.

Thank you so much for your nice comment 👍🤗

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Thanks for sharing. Please be doing this kind of piece here, so I can learn.

Thank you for the tips.

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