FINDING HAPPINESS

Can we really describe happiness in words? Well, happiness emanates within us and can be felt when someone expresses himself or herself through a smile or some kind of body response. Life is filled with hits and dumps, we choose, design, or create our happiness by ourselves. I said "create" because when your heart is filled with the troubles of life, it becomes very difficult for you to be happy, however, you can choose the best path to follow and work towards achieving that.

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Different people with different views about what happiness is. To some people, touching lives positively, and helping the needy makes them happy, it grants them this self-fulfillment and that's what happiness means to them. Some people define happiness as seeing their family having a good life. Most people see richness as their main source of happiness. Of course, money puts smiles on our faces, it makes us happy knowing that some of our problems will be solved with money but then, what if money can no longer be found tomorrow? Some people have a lot of money but yet, can't find happiness instead they chose to commit suicide. It's just personality anyways, but one can actually choose to be happy amidst all odds. Having good friends around can also be some people's definition of happiness and I also see it as temporary happiness because you may find those good people wanting tomorrow.

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To me, I see happiness as this inner peace, joy, contentment, and fulfillment I experience amidst life's struggles.

Now, finding happiness also differs for individuals but I will tell you a few ways I find happiness and these are:

  • Staying positive: positive thinking is a good therapy for the mind. In finding happiness, I strive to avoid feeding my mind with negative thoughts. I reflect on my past achievement, and I focus on the brighter side of my life and that makes me happy👌

  • Contentment: Here, I try to remind myself that I am not in competition with anyone. I love and value what I have, and my achievement so far. I avoid comparison of any kind with people and I stay more focused on getting better. If not, one can find herself feeling so much depressed unnecessarily.

  • Feeling loved: Having my family and loved ones around me makes me happy. These are people that are always there to lift my soul whenever I am downcast, especially while gazing at my kids, the joy I feel within cannot be described here. Many times, they give me a lot of reasons to stay happy and in them, I find happiness also.

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In conclusion, no matter any meaning you attach to the word"happiness", always strive to create the atmosphere to be happy. Life has no spare and despite what we encounter, we all deserve to be happy🧡

This post was inspired by the #hivelearners community contest on the topic titled HAPPINESS.

MANY THANKS FOR READING!!!*



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Many people compare themselves with other people's success and bring themselves sadness forgetting they are even better than most people

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Exactly my dear...with this mentality, happiness will be far from that person.

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Yes, I really agree with your points enumerated. Being content with what you have always makes you the happiest person alive. A rich person without being content can never be happy until he/she is content with what he/she has. Someone can be poor but because he is content with the little he has, he becomes happier.

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You are right as well 👍
Thanks for your contribution to my post

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Many things are really out of our control. I think happiness can be found in knowing the difference, right? Thanks for sharing this! 👍

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Yea...it's all about self discovery 👌
Thanks for dropping by 👍

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Happiness is simple, but we will not get happiness in our lives if we don't want to create happiness in ourselves like always thinking positive, easy to smile and not envious. 😁

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Very correct my dear
We need to create it by all means 👍
Thanks for visiting 👍

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It is in us to choose and create the lives we want for ourselves and this can be done through happiness. With happiness, one will achieve a lot of things because your mind will only be filled with gratitude, contentment and positive thought.

To me, I see happiness as this inner peace, joy, contentment, and fulfilment I experience amidst life's struggles.

This is very true and I agree. Even in the midst of troubles, we still stay happy knowing that it only lasts for a while.

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Wowww
End of discussion 😂👌👍👍👍🤗☺️☺️

I really appreciate this comment princess.... nothing is permanent, we just need to remain positive with effort 👌👍

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Contentment, this is one of the best ways to stay happy. Whoever is not contented with the little they have can never Experience happiness.

Thanks for sharing.

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My dear, you Gerrit
No two ways about this 👌👍

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Having my family and loved ones around me makes me happy

I also believe this. My child's smiling face is my happiness.

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Good evening

I love how you view happiness and sure staying around our loved ones and those who love us is the greatest happiness of time.

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It is mercy dear. i do appreciate your visit 👍🤗🥰

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Life has no spare and despite what we encounter, we all deserve to be happy.

Every individual truly has different ways to derive happiness. I would still say Happiness is Gold

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Happiness is indeed gold, a luxury 👌

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Yes dear. Happy new month make sure you enjoy yourself and stay happy❤

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Of a truth like you said, we all have our various means of finding happiness, but we seems to have one alike, which is the aspects of feeling loved, I also tend to become excited when I felt loved from via someone words or reaction.

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Our loved ones play a major role in making us happy. So when you have one, hold him tight 👍

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Contentment, staying positive and feeling loved are actually vital indices for happiness though happiness means different thing to different people.

I must commend your kind of dimension on this subject. Thanks so much.

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That is true. I must find happiness oh! Hahaha 😄 lovely dear.

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You nailed it mama! Happiness is something we create because when life hits us hard, it'll be difficult to find happiness.

Staying positive, content and loved is a great way to be happy. Spreading love too can bring forth true happiness.

This was such a lovely read, I enjoyed it 😊. Thanks for sharing! ❤️

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Happiness is indeed different to different individuals. As long we are contented with our happiness and as long as it is not too short-lived then that is something to be proud of. 😊

!1UP

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Interesting, staying positive is actually one of the best way to be happy 😁

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Feeling love. Hmmm! The joy derived from loved ones is really worth it. May the love never die and may you live long to be happy together.

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Our family gives us the first experience of happiness, it can't be compared to another while we were young, bunas we grew older we become more exposed to different ways we can derive happiness one of which is through helping others. Weldone ma

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You are right about this.
I appreciate your dropping by 👍

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The pleasure is mine. Do have a pleasant night rest

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This is very interesting post, happiness is very important,. If you are not happy you can never look well though matter what you eat

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Generally, positive thinking helps to create happiness. But I really do not think that's enough. Positive actions go a much longer way.

Taking steps to making others happy has a boomerang effect. Try sending an appreciation message to your husband and see his response. That will somehow make you feel happy. Why? It is so because making others happy develops a feel of fulfilment that in turn generates happiness.

Actually, many factors can contribute to making us feel happy. Choosing to be content will help filter negative feeling towards oneself, others, ans life in general.

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Wow
Oil full your head olujay
Thank you so much for this contribution 👏👌

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What more can make someone happy than to stay happy always
I love it too when I put a smile one people's face because it makes me happy that some other people can smile because of me

While some find happiness is making others cry there was a girl I was working with before she loves it when bad things happen and she will tell me that it makes her happy different people with different mindset and different ways of making themselves happy

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Other people smiling because of me is a huge happiness on its you 🙂

That your friend is weird 🤣
How can someone be happy seeing others having a bad time.

Personality shaa
Thanks for dropping by ☺️

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