Love Beyond Loving - A Love That Wins

Have you ever seen a couple and you could guess that they will live together till old age?

Or a couple that keeps affirming to you that "True love does exist"?

I feel all that when I see my aunt and her husband but above all, I see them as super humans in their marriage life. How they still keep going regardless of what they face is so inspiring.

They are the definition of "A Love that wins" no matter what happens.

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Sadly, I didn't get to witness such love in my family since dad and mum had to go their separate ways when I was little. Maybe they lived a bit of the couple life in my presence but I was too young to understand what they had to face as a couple.

Regardless of my story growing up, I got the chance to live and experience what it really is like to watch a couple and learn from them... My aunt and her husband.

I may have to interview them for my future content and show their faces then but for now, I'm just going to share what I feel when I see those two for the past four to five years that I've lived with them.

• Their love is above quarrels that disunite them

I've never seen them have a heated argument or fight over something. I know I haven't stayed with them for too long but we would agree that four years is more than enough to find a couple quarreling at least but I never got to witness any in that home.

Okay, I'm not saying they don't quarrel or have disagreements... I'm saying, you'll never see them do that in your presence or in front of their kids and I find that super commendable. The tolerance among them is amazing.

• Their love is above small & big challenges

There's no couple love without having to face situations that could shake their live foundation but with this couple, I learnt better that there are just some love foundation that nothing can shake as they do believe in each other.

From family issues, to struggling for a male child, to almost losing a life... This couple still act like nothing of such happens to them. You just know it when it actually happens in your presence or you're told but not their priceless expressions and happy living.

If love was a couple, I'd choose them to be the ones.

You could see both trying their best on their own part to make their family grow from strength to strength. Having the chance to be around this couple is like, experiencing love in it's purest form.

Sometimes I do think, that they are setting a pace that only few can or will achieve and I think that is a standard worth emulating. I'm not sure how much better my marriage life story will be but I admire this couple and would be glad to have such a firm love foundation too.