LOH #153// The trait I hate in man

In life, I understand that nobody is perfect, I have my own flaws so as you have yours but the mystery there is that what I find annoying might not mean much to other, it might not even bother them at all. There are some traits that I find annoying in man that if I was allow that I will like to get ride of and one of them is disorganized.

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Have you ever been closed to a man that is always disorganized? if you haven't good for you because no matter how hard you try you will always get frustrated. No matter how organized you are this type of a man will always be a bother to you.

There was a time when I came to the city for the first time, i was staying with my brother in a one bedroom apartment. Every morning before I go to work, I will make sure to rearrange the room and organized everything but before I came back in the evening I will met the room messed up by no one other than my brother.

His clothes will be in every corner and I hate that about him, at least if he can't do everything, he should be able to take care of his own belongings but no you will be the one to pick his clothes from the floor, arrange his shoes and even his toothbrush will not be in the right place, it's always annoying but if I complain I will change it for, when I see that he is not ready to change I leave him alone.

Another thing I hate so much is lack of consideration. I hate someone who doesn't care about others need or feelings, all they care about is themselves. The act of selfishness that lead to greediness, I hate a man who is like that because no matter what you do, you will always get hurt by them.

I was in a relationship with a guy back when I was in college, but this guy was so self centered, he doesn't care about my need at all. At first I thought maybe he will change not until he showed me his true colors. I was not pay my salary on time and I told him that I need to pay my school fees before the closing date and it's just two days away but he couldn't do anything about it and fortunately for me they paid our salary a day to the closing date.

We were to meet that day and I told him that I will be paying my school fees the following morning that they have paid my salary. He didn't say anything,I felt pressed and i left my phone with him and went to the rest room unknown to me that he has transferred part of the money. I went to the internet cafe the following morning to pay my school fees and it was telling me insufficient balance, I was dumbfounded and I went to my Gmail to check the statement of my account and I saw that he was the one that transferred the money.

I left the cafe angrily and went straight to his house, I asked him why he transferred my money without my consent and he said he saw a camera he really wants to buy and he is short on cash that is why he borrowed the money from my account that he will return it soon, I don't know what to say because the time is running out, it's not like he doesn't know what I need the money for but he doesn't care. I left his house and went to my friend's place. I told her what happened and fortunately for me she have enough money to borrow me that I add with the remaining money to pay for my school fees.

How can someone be that selfish, he should have considered me first, the camera can wait but the school fees can't, he is being doing many things before that I did not count but that one end our relationship, I can't keep getting hurt all in the name of love.

I can't do with some who doesn't care about my feelings or my need so I will rather do away with such person. I understand no one is perfect but at least we should learn how to be considerate.

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