Lifestyle|| 3 Things to have before taking step to marriage life

Hey! guys just want to share something I learned yesterday that really reflect in everyday lifestyle. Yesterday, I attended a wedding in our community. As I see the newly wed couple, they were so blessed having family, relatives, friends and the whole neighborhood supporting them.

I have three takeaways as I listen intentionally to the encouraging words from the sponsors and guests to the newly wed couple.

1. We must have a permanent work to sustain the needs of the family.
   Yes, it is easy to be inlove and promise the moon and the stars. However, it is very much important that you have enough savings and regular income to sustain the needs of the family and enable to cope up whenever uncontrolled circumstances strike us financially.

2. We have to be tough at all time. There is no room just to seat in a corner and watch what will happen next. We have to be tough in fighting trials and temptations to build a strong foundation of our family. One mistake will surely lead to another mistake if we allow ourselves to be tempted and be defeated by the trials of life and trials of our relationship as husband and wife. We have to be emotionally, physically,and mentally ready.

3. We must love and trust God first in order to love our husband/wife unconditionally. If we surrender all to God our battles, our worries, our fears and all that we have surely, we will be a responsible husband and wife, and a parent to our children and a good citizen as well which will define us as founder of a healthy family foundation. .

This three things is very important in building the foundation of a family. Let us remember that family is the first foundation being established not agencies catering family problems. May God bless everyone and have a wonderful day with your family.

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Just like this wedding cake, the baker has to be focused on what she is doing to attain the best quality, intentionally make every steps she has to make to attain every detail to satisfy her costumers, and having a generous heart in investing time, talent and money to satisfy her costumers.
Same with marriage, we have to focused, intentional and generous in order to attain our goals everyday to have firm relationship and foundation of our family. Even we will be shaken, we will standfirm in our vows and commitment.