THE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU SEE

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Personally, I have always been drawn to individuals who possess the confidence to speak up in any setting. I admire people who command attention with their speech, dress, walk, and overall demeanor. These qualities are what initially capture our attention, often unconsciously, and they matter. There are instances where a person may not meet the qualifications for a job, but their physical appearance compels the interviewer to consider them for the position, highlighting the significance of physical appearance.

The way people perceive physical appearances is not something that can be fully controlled, as it often involves involuntary reactions. When attending a job interview, it is essential to present yourself in a manner that showcases your skills and makes a strong impression. Merely possessing a skill is not enough; your appearance plays a crucial role in making a lasting impact.

As someone who excels in polite communication, I understand that my physical appearance will be a significant factor when applying for a receptionist position. While being polite is essential, there are other qualities that are equally important, many of which are tied to physical appearance. For instance, a receptionist should have a presentable appearance, as they are often the first point of contact for clients and customers.

It can be challenging for individuals with disabilities to secure certain roles, such as receptionist positions, as they may require additional support and accommodations. While being skilled is vital, matching that skill with a suitable appearance is equally important.

I once watched a video about a woman who was exceptionally talented in event organization but lacked the necessary educational qualifications. To secure a job, she impersonated someone with a strong academic background, and her talent eventually earned her a position. Although she excelled in her role and contributed significantly to the company's growth, her deception was eventually discovered. After much consideration, her employer chose to retain her due to her exceptional skills, despite her lack of formal education.

This story illustrates that having a skill is not enough; people often expect more. If you fail to meet these expectations, you may miss out on opportunities. It would be unrealistic to ignore physical appearance and focus solely on skills. Eventually, we will come to understand why physical appearance matters.

Sometimes, people miss opportunities due to their charismatic or timid appearance. As a job seeker, it is crucial to understand the type of job you are applying for and tailor your appearance accordingly. If you fail to do so, your interviewer may make assumptions about you, which can negatively impact your chances.

Making a good impression with your initial appearance is vital, as someone is always watching and judging. Never overlook aspects of your appearance, as everything is crucial when meeting someone for the first time. While we may try to change how people perceive physical appearances, it is a deeply ingrained aspect of human nature, and altering it may be challenging.

People are naturally drawn to others based on physical appearance first, and then other qualities follow. This is my perspective on the importance of physical appearance, and I believe it is a crucial aspect of our daily interactions.

In addition to the initial impression, physical appearance also plays a role in how others perceive our confidence and competence. Research has shown that people who are deemed attractive are often perceived as more confident and competent, even if their skills and qualifications are equal to those of others. This phenomenon is known as the "halo effect," where one positive trait influences our perception of other traits.

Furthermore, physical appearance can also impact our self-esteem and self-perception. When we feel confident in our appearance, we are more likely to take risks and pursue opportunities. On the other hand, if we are self-conscious about our appearance, we may hesitate to speak up or assert ourselves.

In conclusion, physical appearance plays a significant role in our daily lives, from job interviews to social interactions. While skills and qualifications are essential, our physical appearance can make or break our chances of securing opportunities. It is crucial to be aware of this and present ourselves in a manner that showcases our skills and makes a positive impression. By doing so, we can increase our chances of success and build stronger relationships with others.

Moreover, it is essential to recognize that physical appearance is not just about aesthetics; it is also about confidence, self-perception, and how others perceive us. By taking care of our physical appearance and presenting ourselves in a positive light, we can boost our self-esteem and increase our chances of achieving our goals. Ultimately, physical appearance is an integral aspect of our overall presentation, and it is up to us to utilize it to our advantage.

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Your perspective on the importance of physical appearance in job interviews and daily interactions is insightful. I think employers should aim to create fair hiring practices ensuring that everyone has an equal opportunity.

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Yeah it would be nice for everyone to get equal benefits but it’s something that for some reason we just don’t allow it 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Thank you so much for your input to the little I’ve said 🤗

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Every point you made in this post hits the nail very well, I am also in support of not discarding the importance of physical appearances, someone might not even be given the chance to prove themselves if they don't appear appeal enough for the role even though they are skilled, physical appearance matters as much as skill possession.

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Exactly! It would be hard to just focus only on professional skills because what we see is what affects our decisions most times.

Thank you so much for your contribution ma’am 🥰

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I admire your exploration on this topic. Physical appearance doesn't only revolve around clothing and fashion, but also on how one carries his/herself in terms of confidence, smartness and eloquence in speech.

But somehow due to individual differences and background, I believe everyone should be given a chance, the dress not withstanding. An employer can change his employee fashion sense, right?

Thanks for sharing @hopestylist 💝

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Yeah, if you noticed I didn’t talked so much about the dressing aspects because I feel it is relative. But notwithstanding, not having the appropriate clothes for an occasion doesn’t give you the room to look unkept.

It would definitely be better if that aspect is overlooked but I don’t think it can be overlooked for all jobs.

Thank you so much for your contribution dear 🥰

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This is so insightful, and it's really best you do it all the days of your life, just be your best as you never can tell what may happen next.

And that's why I don't like the introverted mindset😅, like why stop yourself from socializing when you could probably get a lot from it, building confidence and intelligence and well (when ya with the right beings tho). Just go our and do your thing, you have nothing to lose, las las na lesson you go learn, lol.

Glad we're beginning to understand the importance of socializing tho, really important. And b4 I 4get, u look gud on ur dress as well, looking cupcake🍾😅

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This was just a brilliant comment Jay 😁. Indeed there is nothing to lose when we can be outspoken when necessary. Some of us are just too shy 🏃‍♀️‍➡️😂.

I’m glad we are getting better at socializing as that will help build our confidence for occasions like that.

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Very well said. Physical appearance plays a very important role in many things.
Show up, and dress very well like it's your last day on earth, everyday.
#dreemport

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