GET MADE!!!

Life has it's series of challenges and difficulties and you know, the most interesting part of it is how all the pains vanishes away once the problem is solved. You just seem to forget about how things were so tough for you that you even cried your eyes out and how you kept calling yourself a failure and feeling so undeserving of everything that is happening to you.

20240316_234454_0000.png

Those difficulties gives us the opportunity to shape ourselves into the person we are meant to be. It's only when a caterpillar face the difficult of breaking out of it's cocoon that it comes out as a beautiful butterfly. There is never any difficulty that has the purpose of turning us into someone else but who we truly are.

As long as we live on this Earth, we are bound to face difficulties in different areas of life and the way we handle these difficulties are what in turn defines us. Growing up as a child I had so many difficulties but the major one of them was living without my mom. There were days when I was so sad and I start hating on my mum for leaving because I do believe that things would have been a lot easier for my dad and my siblings if she was around.

I remember there were times in school when we got some acknowledgement from our teachers for how well-behaved my siblings and I were and they always gave the praises to my mum but I made sure to tell them it was all my dad! Life was difficult without my mom but somehow we managed. I was only able to cope well because I had my dad's Support and also a very good support from my siblings. They were always there for me and they made so many difficulties seem like nothing.

My experience living without a mum wasn't so bad after all, I got to realize that no one is ever going to be there forever and also I learned that everything that we face happens for a reason so we should always learn to be grateful and move on. When I hated my mum for a long time for leaving, it got to a point when I got to realize that it was all a waste because I didn't even know the exact reason she left us so there wasn't any point hating her.

InShot_20240228_234239013.jpg

Today, I'm doing so well with my mom and I have gotten to realize that she has her reasons for what she did and since my siblings and I are still doing well, then just Maybe that was all God's plan for us and it isn't so bad as we thought it was at the start. I got to know how to cope with everything that comes my way and that has helped me adjust in almost every situation I find myself in.

Since my mum wasn't around to give me the advise I needed at some point, that made me took delight in Learning from so many other mother figures and that has helped me see things in so many perspectives. And for the fact that I get to think in different ways, it has helped me relate better with a lot of people and I think that is all thanks to the difficulties I faced for not living with my mother.

There were days I wished I had a mother under the same roof as me and my siblings but then it was for a better good because I really do appreciate the kind of person I'm becoming and it was only made possible thanks to those nights when I cried so hard because I didn't had my Mom around. Those tears made me stronger and better every single time and I'm so grateful for them!

That's my response for the Hivelearners community on "EMBRACING THOSE DIFFICULTIES'

Thumbnail used was designed using canva and the second Image is mine



0
0
0.000
13 comments
avatar

I'm glad that irrespective of the absence of your mom, you did not just halt your learning.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Yeah I couldn't, I had to keep pushing. Thank you so much for stopping by 🥰

0
0
0.000
avatar

Yes, as long as we live on earth we're all entitled to face challenges in life.
I'm so proud of you❤️ that you could still push up even without your mom's advices, encouragement, care, guidance and co.
You were still able to keep going ❤️
I feel your pain
But life moves on
And I'm glad on how far you've come in life😊❤️

0
0
0.000
avatar

Yeah Emmy, life goes on and even though it got to me at some point, in the end I believe it was all for the best 🥰.

Thank you so much for stopping by 🤗

0
0
0.000
avatar

Congratulations @hopestylist! You have completed the following achievement on the Hive blockchain And have been rewarded with New badge(s)

You published more than 750 posts.
Your next target is to reach 800 posts.

You can view your badges on your board and compare yourself to others in the Ranking
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

To support your work, I also upvoted your post!

0
0
0.000
avatar

Whoa! That's incredible! Thank you so much for the update Buzzy 🥰 , looking forward to my next achievement 😊

0
0
0.000
avatar

Growing up without the support of mom is very difficult in my opinion. I didn't face the situation but I can guess or predict how difficult it was for you. But at the same time it made you strong also because you knew it from earlier than your mom wasn't there to support you.
!LUV

0
0
0.000
avatar

Yeah, Knowing that she wasn't there helped us grow stronger. It's not some thing anyone wants to even have an experience of.

Thank you so much for stopping by 🥰

0
0
0.000