Dad and Daughter's Boyfriend.

Hi Everyone in the #HiveghanaCommunity.

Prior to the Hiveghana prompt, i will be sharing with us my own opinion of why fathers do not always like their daughter's boyfriends on their first visit but do get friendlier with time.

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There are several reasons why fathers might initially be apprehensive or cautious about their daughter's boyfriend during their first meeting.

Mostly, Fathers have a great bond for their daughters and often feel a strong sense of responsibility to protect their daughters, which can lead to a natural inclination to be skeptical of anyone who enters their daughter's life, especially a romantic partner. So initially they won't just open their minds to their daughters boyfriend till he later gets aquainted with him, spend more time with the boyfriend and get to know him better or probably seeing their daughters happy and thriving in their relationships. If they see that their daughter is happy and well-treated by her boyfriend, they are more likely to warm up to him. As the relationship between the daughter and her boyfriend progresses, fathers have the opportunity to observe how the boyfriend treats their daughter and how he handles challenges or conflicts within the relationship thereby helping build trust between the father and the daughter's boyfriend.

Most Fathers worry about losing their close relationship with their daughter as she becomes more involved with a romantic partner. I was my Dad's favourite when he was alive and we were so closely related till my mum got jealous of me snatching her husband. So most fathers do not want to drag the attention with the daughter's boyfriend the more reason they tend not to like the daughter's boyfriend they see him as a threat. You know that a Dad was once a boyfriend so he understands this things. How he once took away someone's daughter attention from the father.

Fathers want the best for their daughters so they tend to reject or dislike any boy that looks irresponsible here is when he is concerned about whether the boyfriend is capable of providing love, support, and stability in the relationship and will not hurt the daughter. They might have preconceived ideas about the type of person they envision their daughter dating, and if the boyfriend doesn't fit that image, they may be initially resistant.

Lastly, Most fathers were not Good boyfriends back then they knew how much Bad things they did to other people's daughter in the past so them seeing a boyfriend brings back those memories and they want to try as much as possible to protect their daughter's from another boy so she would'nt end up getting hurt just like the father had hurt other girls in the past. The more reason they tend to dissaprove of the relationship with their daughter at first but on the long run they get friendlier maybe because the boyfriend has shown great and Amazing attributes and has earned the father's trust.

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