3 traits I wish folks have...

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Am gonna be short and straight, For a week now its blackout in the whole Warri city. I usually dont have enough Battery carrying out hive activities but i do try the best i can. With the increment in the prize of fuel i managed to charge phone. It hurts me Just as much because am addicted to hive.

let's get down to business

Sometimes i wonder why all folkes or some dont thave my kinda attribute. Am still trying to find a person that behaves and acts just like me, its been years and am actually concluding maybe that person does not exist.

Its unethical to compare people base on what they posess or what they are capable of. People all over the world are different, they have different characters that might irritates or suit you. Well that makes the world a fun place to live in,. Can you imagine how boring the world will be if they aint different kinds of people to entertain your mood swings?

Well if people woud posses a particular character or triats, then these three are my admires. Probably because i have them all myself.




1: Understanding: Some folks have these nonchallent and inconsiderate character and mindset. They think if it's good for them today then it's good for the next, without figuring out what Mr A is passing through . The worst part is they'll try to impose whatever decision they have on the next person that is trying to survive at that point in time.

Understanding goes a long way. imagine you not having the capacity to pump water with a gen during blackout but your neighbor keeps imposing it on you saying you must do it,"without minding if you buoyant or not, they wont even care you go steal just to please them. Just wished everyone has an understanding character than being a brute

  1. Trustworthy: Am not trying to brag or anything but am the kinda person that someone can rely on. Sometimes I do wonder why everyone cant be cant be trusted. ,..

Currently The world is filled with people that cant be trusted.,to the extent the person you trust the most is gonna be the one piercing a sharp knife through your back. You cant trust anyone because people dont want to be realiable. Some probably are scared while others just dont want to border themselves, I guess thats how broken the world is

The bitter truth is if a trust is broken it can never be repaired but people always dont value it, thats why its broken at the first place.

  1. Communication: Have you ever heard the slag communication is the key? Its a versatile word and it goes with every thing around the world. Can you imagine if everyone around the world has the skill to communicate with each other. Have you ever talked to a customer representative? Probally the first lamba they'll tell you, would be soothing and calming, and you'll just see yourself melting away.

Communication skill goes with a job, if there aint communication in a business how will you persuade customers to come back for another offer,? or how would you treat workers or colleagues to keep them doing a good job.

Communication goes along way with relationships if they aint communication then the relationship wont probably last. Communication opens up the wound and stich it back up. I probably love this skill out of others because its the one thing that gives an understanding of what you dont really understand.

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People lack communication skills. It's either they're not listening or they just don't know how to compose their words.
Then there's the area of speaking and others misinterpreting. It's little wonder many would rather swallow their words and live with enduring so much.
There's too much work to be done as regards communication

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Hmmmmm yahhh, i guess people need to know more and practice lots of communication skills

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I agree with you on the understanding part, my folks will believe that since I have HBD I should sell it whenever they need money or they are hungry not considering that I am working myself out to acquire all of it, and also they are very selfish they only know about themselves.
#dreemerforlife

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Lolz i for sure distant myself from selfish people the moment i observed they are. The lessons of life is base on sacrifice its a shame people dont want to learn about it

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It's very hard to trust anyone in these times. There's been so much decay that people would rather keep things to themselves and away from those they love. We need to build ourselves. That's an important value.

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Yahhh absolutely, the best treatment for an everlasting life is to just keep your secrets to yourself

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Understanding is very vital in the community of humans. Most of the problems we have today came from lack of understanding. Most of us want others to be like us, we look out for ourselves in others and we are all aware that that will never happen. We are wired differently and as such, we cant think and do things the same way. If only we can learn to accept people for who they are and make corrections where necessary, the world would be a better place.

Good communication is very important, the manner which we approach people says so much about us. I know I am not a talkative but my prayer everyday day is, anyone who speaks with me, should never regret conversing with me.

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Hmmmm this one u are talkative are you good at keeping someones secrets 😁😁

Well you pretty right. Communication should be the first thing we all should learn especially manner of approach when communicating

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LoL.. trust me, I can keep not just secret but hearts as well😂😂😂

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I hope most people try to understand the next person point of view. Some people happen to be so non chalant about this particular trait.

Thank you for sharing
Popped in from #dreemport

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Exactly the just want their opinions and ideas to be carried out without knowing he the next person will be comfortable with it its ironical

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