Change Is constant

The only constant thing in life is change. This is influenced daily through life's vicissitudes, environmental factors, growth, or the natural factors. As long as a man lives, there's always a change and a causal-factor. Since I became an adult, most activities I do often require me to settle in a strange land, a place with a different culture and tradition. This had made me learn the culture of others and had helped me to adapt to a new environment and culture.

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I grew up to be so soft, always hiding from anything that causes trouble usually to my detriment. This made me timid at a point, unable to stand up for myself. In the process of trying to seek peace, I got cheated because I frightened myself from anything that seemed like trouble not until I stayed in Ekiti for my compulsory 1 year service. The street I stayed in had people who were troublesome, trying to stay in my space was impossible and soon my gentle nature opened a room for a bully until it got to a point where I needed to throw away all protocol of gentleness.

Soon my timidness was out of the window and I gained back my stand. Staying in Ekiti at first was hard, trying to cope with all the troubles but at last I was able to become strong in dealing with troubles that I often shied away from over the years and this had made me cope with whatever environment I find myself in. I am peaceful where peace is honored and a core survival where it's demanded. To have left my initial environment really shaped me to be a man that I am today.


This is in response to the Qc-Community contest. The contest is opened for all



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Nigger, watch the fucking fuck out with these quips, or get fucking shot, fucking retard negro. Learn to fucking read and listen, motherfucking infantile retard animal and stop with your fucking quips and provocations, primitive animal / criminal

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Being a victim to bullying is really bad, I glad you were able to stop being shy

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I did o. And the experience really changed me

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It has to change you, we have to learn things the easy way or the hard way.

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I am peaceful where peace is honored and a core survival where it's demanded.

Sadly, this is how we need to be. Hopefully one day we won't need the second side just to have a peaceful life, but at the moment we need to do what it takes to set our boundaries.

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