Signs a guy is interested in you
There are certain signs guys show when they are interested in a lady, do not misunderstand my text, A guy can be interested in you for so many reasons, but it does not necessarily mean he loves you so do not get it twisted.
The signs I am listing here are what guys do when they are interested in you and also note that different guys have their own ways of showing they are interested.
Gift: Some guys show their interest in a lady by giving her a lot of gifts, there are a lot of ways this can be expressed.
It could be someone you always buy provisions or other stuff you need from and you notice he is always giving you more than you paid for, like buying goods of 4000 Naira and he gives you 5000 naira worth of goods or he gives you extra all the time to complement what you bought and you notice he does not do this to any of his other customers, it is a green light.
It could be a guy who always calls you that he wants to take you out, to a restaurant or other nice place, who has the time to take someone he doesn't like to a restaurant to spend on her, it is a clear sign that he is interested in you, some guys would come up with random gift out of the blues for you, which means you are on his mind.
Listening Ears: Guys love to listen to gist from ladies they are interested in so they can get to know them better, if you have someone always ready to listen to your gist even when they are dry gist then you have got someone interested in you and waiting for the right time to tell you or probably you have friend zoned them and they are patiently waiting until you are going to unlock the friendship padlock and give them access to your heart.*
Tease: Some guys will do the opposite of what their heart tells them to do because they don't want you to know they are interested in you, they could just be mean to you for no reason at some point and then later you realize they started becoming soft all of a sudden, that just means they could not pretend anymore, some guys just love to annoy the girl they are interested in, they will frustrate your life playfully and you will wonder if it was your village people that send them to you.
Caring: People are nice but we should be able to differentiate when people are just being nice or they want more from you, As I have explained above, A man giving you his goods for free wants more from you, that calls you randomly for an outing also want more from you.
Some girls know this and still play along collecting and enjoying the freebies knowing they are not interested in the guys and that is the main reason for this post, do not sniff the food you know you ain't going to eat, do not lead those guys on.
If a guy is always giving you more than what you bought from his shop if you are not interested in him, it is either you stop buying things from him or tell him to stop giving you freebies rather than keep collecting and you think it is your luck shining.
If you also notice a guy is being too nice to you, If you are not interested in him, don't play the I will take him as my elder brother card on him because everyone knows their family members and if you check well, the guy might not be that nice to his siblings.
Never play along unless you are interested in him too
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This part got me, I know ladies who will play along with a guy they are not interested in just to get stuff from the guy.
What if a guy is being too nice to a lady and the Lady at the hand has told him she isn't interested but the guy refuses to stop and still comes around?
That is on the guy then but I will still advise the lady to be careful around him because such guys can be dangerous and they would do anything to get what they want.
Some guys are very wicked, they will go on dates with you just to get you to fall and break your heart.
As for me, I don’t see signs. If you can’t open your mouth to tell me you like me then will all be sitting there.😂
Periodddt
Yea not everyone that is interested in you have good intention towards you, this is why I emphasize at the beginning of the post that being interested in you does not mean they love you, guys have different motives for being interested in someone, atimes it could be a bet among their gang, some other time they just want to mogrimo and some other time after grabbing your attention, they just lose interest.
It is okay for you to pretend not to see the signs but it is not okay for you to keep playing along
Some men are not good people.😅
I pray for only good men in my life.
It's the last point for me bro 😂😂, nobody should take me as a brother abeg even if you don't have a brother at home😂😂
Nicely constructed our approaches, mk girls read stop Dy stress person abeg 😂
Lolz 😅, enough of this brotherzone. We have enough sisters already and don't want another .
😂😂
You have shared something very special and good with us so we can also know how a person shows interest in another person.
In case of gift I am always try to stay away from it and I don't give gift to anyone except my family members or someone's birthday. And the last three points are naturally exists in my character and it's same for all and gender has nothing to do with it. But I can understand you point of view and I think you are right because I have seen it many times in case of males.
The last three points is a trait that exist in all human but there is something we call overdoing or being excessive, when you start overdoing it that is no longer normal ...
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Oya Oya you don tell me now so if a guy is doing all of these to me, I know he cares for me
Also, the guy will always support you. Even if he knows that you’re not right, he would not want to get you angry by saying you’re wrong😂
To be honest, some guys can have all this and show you love but at the end, they don't care about you. They just want to quench their satisfaction
There are some females who are now feel they can use the guy anyone due to the fact that the rhe guy is showing sign of been inter