Do not become that thing you hate
Good morning famz!
It is another beautiful day and one more step closer to whatever goals we are pursuing, we definitely can't stop as every day is one more chance to destroy the calendar....
There are so many things i hate which also makes me not to like some people who possess such characters, it just annoy me....
The first on my list of things i dislike so much is
For some reason, i dislike those who bully others with passion, it infuriate me more that bullies do not pick on their size or people upto par with them, they prefer intimidating the weaklings, they flex their muscle on those who are weaker than them and this is why most of the fight i have ever fought in life was not really for myself but for my friends....
I am a very gentle guy and i don't like trouble, so i try my possible best to avoid things that will cause trouble for me or involve in one thing or another that might likely put me in a bad energy with someone else and it has been working fine for me, i also don't like poke nosing into other's fight even if it is someone close to me, i will only try to settle it but if i sense any act of bully from the other person , then i will make the fight mine, don't dare bully the people i love....
Yes! and up till date i still remember it vividly...
I was in senior secondary school then, ss 1 to be precise and i would admit i was among the playful ones and i play alot that i would start sweating all over ...i am a typical example of a student that Leaves home very neat but returns home very dirty lol..
On that fateful day i was bullied, it was by a class mate but he was in a different department, i was a science student while he was an art student, it was break time and i was playing with my friends as usual then while running around, i mistakenly step on his foot and stained his white socks, he didn't give me a chance to apologize before he landed a very hot slap on my cheek....
Dang that slap touched me well, that i didn't even know when tears rolled from my eyes, i looked at him but could not do anything, he was much more taller than me, i can't do anything stupid than to just look at him except i want to receive more beatings😒.. he was one of those student that likes to look neat always but i bet he won't have slap if the person that marched him was someone as tall or more stronger than him, so literally i just got bullied by my classmate!...
One of my class mate was there when it happened and she was so angry, she was asking and shouting at the guy why he would slap his classmate like that, is it because he is taller or something, she was really so angry, the guy didn't apologize, he just walk away!
I remember that slap every time i see the guy in school and it only makes me hate him more till i graduated from the school...
I saw him again like 4 years after we graduated from secondary school...
He still looks the same as he was back then but i have become taller and even added more weight than him because he was actually a tall skinny guy....
That was the best time to take my revenge from that hot slap he gave me but then instead i forgave him instead and the reason is because it is already 6 to 7 years it happened, he might not even likely remember again, ofcourse it is the person that was hurt that would remember not the person who hurt others...
So that was it! i was bullied, i carried the hurt for many years and when i had the chance to revenge, i could not because i can't be that thing i hate....
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Oh my gosh 😃....I can feel that hot slap, is it still paining you at that point? 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣, Sorry burl
Do not mind him okay 😂....lol
Being Bullied is one thing I hate and I don't bully others as well. It hurts me badly the day I received the news of this rubbish from my son.. I wanted to go cause vawlence in that school but I am only giving them a second chance to repent
lol the hot tears that rolled out of my eyes that day was mixture of pain and weakness
i mind him that time 🤣
hope your son is no longer being bullied?
Lol
Not anymore, at least I keep an eye so close to him....I ask him questions every day once he returns from school
better o, bully is never a good thing for the victim
I can’t believe you were once bully because you look like someone that can’t be bully but I guess that was something at the past and no one dare bully you now😂😂
lol yea, that was in the past, when i was still a boy🤣
Bullying, I really hate that thing. I was a victim just like you and suffered in there hands until I had to fight for myself.
It is a terrible thing and not many students survive the mental effect of being bullied. It must be spoken against and there should be strict punishment in it in school.
yea right! am glad my own was just a one time thing and it was a mistake on my part, but there are really others who suffer this daily in school and it is making them depressed
Yeah, it was a mistake but his reaction was just too harsh. He could have taken a sorry and let it end there.
Omo Burl you try oo😂. If it was me am sure i would have some something to that guy. Most of the time I forgive people who do something to me but when the pain is too much you can never forget it; you might as well just pay him back and be free😂.
There was this time I was bullied by my primary 6 mentee for one stupid thing I can't seem to remember correctly. This teacher punishment me in a very cruel way. He get they he is an elder and could have just caned but he made me sit on the wall and after he saw that I was hurting he still caned me.
Whilst I was crying he was laughing and enjoying it, I can’t seem to forget that particular one and I don’t think when ever I see him I will even smile at him.
🤣do you still see the teacher? let it go , teachers are always right😅🤣
It's really foolish when bullies only confronts the weaklings and not someone like them. To me, they are weaklings too and it is until the victim confronts them back, they will retreat. They just love using their power for the wrong people when there are strong people they can actually face to test their power and abilities 😂
exactly, bullies are weaklings and only intimidate those they know they can defeat..
I was bullied too in ss1 what was my crime? I went to buy case and the seniors gave me general beating ...meeeh, it was not funny and the person I bought her case even escaped. Well, I have learned better.
Gold that you forgave because it would have looked stupid if you had revenge at that time.
Wish you well in your daily pursuit.
yea it wont have make much sense after many years
revenge is sweeter when served at the right time not when the issue is already cold
what case were you buying?
That is it.
The senior tried maltreating my classmate and told her what she was doing was wrong...finish oooo, I come chop beating on top.
Bullying is something a lot of people have to hate. Always being preyed on is an experience I wouldn't wish for an enemy (if I have any). A lot of us have been down this road and that is quite an awful way to feel as a person.
It was interesting reading through this piece of yours boss. Thanks for sharing.
thanks man
LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omo they never bully me before oh Lol 😂😂😂 Na me sef dey bully my bullies Lol 🤣😂😂, it's kinda funny seeing how you were bullied back then Lol 😂😂😂...a whole investor Lol 🤣😂😂 agba baller Lol 🤣😂😂😂...
But Se them born am well make he bully you now Lol 😂😂😂, he wants to chop Lol 🤣😂😂...
This is indeed fun bro, there is no joy in being bully thanks for sharing your experience bro
okada man, stop me here
we have found the bully we have been searching for lol
Lolz 😂🤣🤣🤣 heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 dey play lolz 😂🤣🤣
Yay! 🤗
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I’m just imagining how your face would be when you received the hot slap 👋 🤣🤣🤣🤣, from your write up I can feel the pain in you chest despite that it’s been a very long time😂😂😂
Don’t mind me jare, I was also slapped by a boy when I was in jss1 and I couldn’t do anything other than to blab my mouth and lay insults on him🤣🤣🤣
It can be painful you know, but I’m happy you finally forgave him and moved on with your life, bully is not something I wish anyone to experience especially my kids when I finally have one😢😢
lol sorry for the slap too, i guess we were both bullied, but i didn't run my mouth or insult him in other not to receive more slaps 😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hmmmm! The slap is a lesson to you; i knew since then you won't like to step on someone's toes. The slap will make you very conscious when dealing with some.
Forgiveness is very crucial in this life if you want to go far like, and that was you did.
😅 no doubt
yea we had to let go of somethings or the hatred in our heart as time goes on
LoL 😂 but why do science students always get bullied by some other class?
I was bullied too when I first got to ss1 and that turned me into something else inside the school
When am walking everyone around there run away because I will literally beat anyone who trespass
Because I don't want such thing to happen to me again
I was a gentle girl until the day I was bullied by my seniors because my sister bought me a very beautiful cardigan and I took it to school
Meh that experience was bad but after that I stood up back to them
I always deal with some of them during inter-house sports day you know nobody will notice anything going on 😁
lol, you were bullied and you turn to a bully yourself? that is exactly what the title of my post speak against😊
Bullying is very bad and should not be encouraged. I also hate people who do that. But the unfortunate thing is that I bullied my mates so much when I was little.
Thanks for sharing.
glad you finally realized bullying is bad and you have stopped it😊
Yeah... That's the sad thing about these things, it's the victims that have to live on with the memory. While the perpetuators move on with their lives.
I'm glad you found it in your heart to forgive him, because he does not deserve to live rent free in your heart.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
yea my man, it is not worth it letting him have a space in my heart😁
Greetings friends. I really enjoyed reading your writing and I really like your professionalism
thanks, happy sunday