Curiousity could be the key to unravel the truth
Curiosity in people can be termed as a mind that wants to know the truth or learn more about something that is not clear to them.
As humans, there are many things we are curious about, it could be how to know if someone truly loves us or they are pretending, it could be to learn new skills, it could be to know places we have never been to, the list to our curiosity is endless..
The story I am about to share is a life experience and my curiosity was what helped me to unravel the truth without having to wait for an answer from anyone.
It happened 7 years ago.
I was in a relationship with a girl, the beginning of our love story was beautiful, the feeling was mutual and we both love the presence of each other.
It is true that love alone can't make a relationship work, the first 3 months of the relationship were beautiful, the calls, text messages, late night calls[ there was mtn free night calls in those days] Etisalat was also still doing their get 1 SMS free if you text 1.
Everyone can tell we were in love but as we all know, a good thing is not for just one person, the girl chose me but there are people who have been in her life before my arrival who were not happy with our relationship.
One day, one of her friends called me, he said my girlfriend is not who I think she is and she is hiding a lot of things from me, he mentioned how she has dated many people in the past but unfortunately for him, she has told me about all those things but I didn't let him know... My girlfriend was looking at us when the discussion was going on and she could tell the discussion was about her.
She asked me later and I told her it was about her but she doesn't need to know the details, she end the discussion with I should not mind him that he is only protecting his interest, meaning the guy was interested in her, it is a fact I already know though but I didn't think much about all this.
I was not curious about anything until 2 months after, my girlfriend started misbehaving and she won't tell me the reason, I was wondering what was going on, I called and ask her what happen and even try to get the truth from her with the promise that if she is no longer interested in the relationship she should let me know so we can break up but she said nothing was wrong but her action was opposite of that.
I was not happy with how things turned out but i am not the type that begs for love, I had to bear the pains in silence, I was hurting but I act like I was okay.
Few weeks later, I went out to collect my national id but at the location, people were many and I was bored to some extent that I didn't know what to do.
Then I remember during the time when the love was still hot and burning, she logged her Facebook account on my phone, prior to that time I have never checked her account because I am not the type that pokes nose but due to the situation and my curiosity to find out why she suddenly changed, I logged into her account.
What I saw was her conversation with the guy that badmouthed her to me the other day, with what I read, they were already having intimacy and they even discuss me to which my girl will shut him up and at times they will both laugh about my matter.
I was so heartbroken that I angrily messaged her, she denied it till the end and ask what made me say that, she didn't confess until I let her know I saw her Facebook message with the guy, she could not say anything again and that was the end of our discussion and later I realized she changed her password on Facebook.
People who know us tried to resolve the issue and somehow we decided to give love a chance again but the trust was already broken, it can never be like before again...
We chat for two days and we stopped communicating again and that was the end of our love story.
If not for my curiosity, I would be left in the dark as to why she changed not knowing she is cheating on me with someone else.
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You know curiosity is not bad at all. Like you said, we can be curious about so many things. It's a good thing you went extra mile trusting your guts to login to her account and that uncovered all her hidden secret.
With that trust broken, building that relationship won't be possible, I don't a relationship can be fun without trust.
once trust is broken, it can never be earned again cos one won't want it to happen the second time, once bitten twice shy but i would admit i was hurt cos i loved her
Life happens but yours will surely come.
definitely, that was long ago
Hehehe, what a hot 🔥 breakfast. Imagine, the same guy bad mouthing her is still the same she went back to continue a relationship with. Some ladies are confused in life truly. They don't even know what they want. Glad your curiosity saved the day in this case. Oya sorry for the heart break 💔😅
I know you have moved on with someone who gives you peace of mind
i would say they were doing friends with benefits, it was not a relationship..
lol thanks, i will still take your sorry, e no easy o😂
Your curiosity actually gave you a good result and you are very lucky, imagine all the lies she said about the guy not knowing it was something mutual, she made you look like the bad guy and even had the audacity to talk about you with the so-called guy wow, fear women bro, if you see woman and you see a german shepherd, hug german shepherd and leave woman hehe, nemesis caught up with her at last hehe, thanks for sharing bro
they were not dating at first, those times the guy was badmouthing her, it was later on he get to her and i was unaware until the facebook part
I know now, but forget there is a lingering feeling back then jahre it just wasn’t sth strong
I can the situation. It sounds simple to hear but it's capable to give a complicated feeling to one's mind. I can understand the sense of you in that time even if I have never experienced that situation. I love straightforward people, not those one who try to keep me in the dark with sweet words.
Whatever, what happened was good for you otherwise it could be very bad if you able to know it later.
it was bad at that moment but i was able to move on faster after getting to know the truth, one thing most guys hate is for their loved ones to cheat on them.
I'll say curiosity is a good quality to have. In many cases, it helps us discover the truth of what is hidden and not just be left in the dark. Most of the discoveries we've made are through a curiosity to explore.
People are not always honest, they'll hide the important things and play games with us.
yea, you got it, honest people are few and we should not trust anyone to be honest with us especially if it is going to affect them in one way or the other, the best thing is to find out the truth by our own means
Exactly, even if the truth will be something that we may not like to know, we should still find out on our own and be free from the dishonesty that people throw at us.
omo I was in this situation too, it good to be curiosity and find out what is actually going on instead of been in the dark o.
yea, some guys blame themselves for years because of situations like this, their girls changed but they don't know the reason and they were thinking they must have done something wrong without them knowing, whereas that was not the case and some girls will never be truthful to you as to why they change
Hmmmmm hmmmm i can only write, this is indeed an interesting love story reminded me of myself when sneaked to check my guys phone when is behavior changed and found out he was having an affair. The trust was broken definitely.. i wanted to leave and i still will just the child i have with him is still holding me back. But the relationship will and can never be the same again, that is just why its bad to break ones trust