"The Top Three Personality Traits I Avoid at All Costs

Well, we all meet many people in our lifetime and it becomes a little difficult for us to like everyone or for everyone to like us. As we all are different and our behaviour is also different, we like some things and we don't like some things, but I believe that there are some things that everyone hates. I especially hate some things a lot. If I see this in a person or I feel that he is like this, then I keep a distance from such people. Well, there are many things that we dislike, but there are some things on top of the list that we dislike a lot. If I see a person or any person suffering from all these things or getting involved in all these things, then I get very angry.

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Well, not everyone has their way and everyone is a wrong kind of person himself but I believe that you have a choice as to what kind of people you want to keep close to you and what kind of people you want to keep away from yourself and this is your own choice, maybe no one can say anything to you in this. Well, no one is perfect in this world, everyone has some shortcomings but we have to ignore the people we love and such is life, we have to compromise but sometimes some things are such that we cannot ignore them and neither can we let things go like this, though I do not care about a lot of things but the things that I would like to talk about today are on my top list.

Dishonest -:

Yes, the first thing that I find very bad is dishonest people, nowadays it has become very difficult to find honest people because whenever they get a chance, they cheat you. I will not say that it is difficult to break honest people, they are available but the number of dishonest people has increased nowadays and it has become very difficult to trust anyone because it is your illusion that you can understand a person in a few days. It is not possible because it takes many years to understand a person and sometimes you get cheated even after years. So, the thing is that if you see a dishonest person around you who spreads any kind of lies, you should not trust him because if he is doing this to someone today, then it is possible that he can do something similar to you tomorrow.

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I have encountered a lot of dishonest people till now but my habit is that if I get to know about them then I keep a distance from them because staying away from such people is for your good because you never know when they can do the same to you. It is said that prevention is better than cure. If you know that a particular person can harm you shortly or can cause you some kind of pain and suffering then you should stay away from such people because in such a case it is for your good because they have a habit of doing this but if they do the same for you then you may have to face a lot of pain and trouble.

Fighter -:

The other type of person that I hate/dislike a lot is the fighter type who just wants a chance to fight. I don't know why they enjoy fighting so much and are always ready for such things. Their nature is already like this. It takes a lot of time to develop any kind of personality. It is not that all these things develop in a single day or are formed in a single day. It takes many years/months to develop any habit. If a person has been a fighter type since childhood, then he may be like this even when he grows up. And if he grows up like this, then he will become more aggressive as he grows up. I also know many such people. There are some people like this in my office too and they are just ready to fight. I have also had arguments with them a few times but now I know how to deal with them, so I keep a distance from such people and I try my best not to have any kind of argument with them.

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Yes, our fights have never been of a fight, we just argue over trivial matters. Let me tell you, sometimes the office environment becomes toxic and things go out of our hands, but I feel here that if you are having an argumentative fight with him, then instead of arguing with him, you should be calm and not answer any of his answers, then maybe he will calm down in a while and this is possible many times. If even then he does not calm down, then you can do one more thing, by which your fight can end very quickly and for doing this, you just have to say sorry to him, if you can do this, then surely you can get rid of that fight soon. People who are fighting, only believe in their own words, you can say that they insist more on their words and do not even want to listen to others, I would just say that first of all, you should try not to get trapped in such a situation, if you get trapped then deal with it very wisely because sometimes in anger, a person takes very strange decisions and he regrets it after a long time.

Slacker-:

I don't like lazy people a lot. Such people make up a lot of stories especially when they are lazy. If they are given any kind of work, they just don't complete it on time. I hate such people a lot. If you want to do any work, then you should take responsibility for doing it and this is very important. But if any work is given to a lazy person, then he would like to get rid of such things as soon as possible and he tries to give his work to someone else. This is possible sometimes but it becomes a bit difficult to do it all the time. Even if he can do it, it doesn't work for long because a person cannot help you every day. Yes, if you force him to do something, then it is a different matter, otherwise, I don't think that it is very difficult for a person to happily say yes to your every task. If he/she loves you, then it becomes a bit different.

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I have seen that many people have jobs but still, they go to their job just to pass the time and doing this is not a good thing because they are cheating themselves. If they are betraying their work then something may happen to them due to which they may have to face a lot of trouble. In the end, I would just say that stay away from such people because we can go to any extent for our benefit and there is no shame in taking credit even if someone else has done the hard work. I know many such people but I will not take their names and I do not want to take them, but many such people around us show off after doing the work and in reality, they do not do anything.

There are many other things that I do not like, but I sent a message that if you want to get married in any situation, then you can go ahead, you just have to work hard for it and for some time everything seems difficult but gradually things become easy, though you are not my close friend, but whoever you are, you are very close and whenever I make new friends, it takes me some time to get along with them and in that time I get to know from their actions what type of person he is, whether he can be trusted or not etc. etc. I am not judging anyone, we just have to think for ourselves, no one else will come and think anything about you until you think about yourself.

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