The Road Less Taken: Navigating Parenthood and Unforeseen Challenges

Although every parent thinks about the welfare of their children yes, there are some exceptions here and there, but as far as I have felt around, my friend, according to me, most parents think about the welfare of their children. They also want them to have a bright future and while they live, he wants to see them settle down and play a lot with their grandchildren. But we think about many things but not everything happens as we think. Life is very amazing and mysterious. You cannot say anything as to what will happen in the next moment. But a parent always thinks good for their children and wants to see a golden future for them in which their children are successful. No one wants their child to turn out to be useless or worthless or to make fun of them or embarrass them anywhere. Everyone wants to earn respect and everyone wants to get respect in the eyes of others. But many times, no matter how much we try, things go out of our hands and go out of our control.

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However, I am very thankful to my parents for whatever decisions they have taken in my life and I also consider myself very lucky. Whatever request we have made from his parents since childhood, yes, it was not that much but still, whatever they did as per his capacity, they tried their best to accept it and most of the time he was successful in this task too. And they have tried their best to fulfil the wishes of as many children as possible. Parents have different kinds of hearts, they fulfil the wishes and desires of their children by killing their desires and forgetting their wishes. Ever since I completed college, my father used to talk to me about preparing for a government job but I did not give him much importance and I used to think that since I have spent so much time here in college, why should I prepare for a government job? Maybe it was my childhood but now I regret a lot that why I did not prepare for a government job in time.

Yes, there is still time but still now it is not the same thing as before. Now I don't stay in touch because I am not constantly in touch with your studies. Once you leave your studies and get a good job, then it becomes difficult to do some reading and writing. Yes, if your field is of a different type then you need to read, but if you stay away from books then it is difficult. It becomes very difficult, but not impossible, to get your mind back on that track, but it becomes very difficult to get back on this track.

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Till a few years ago, my father used to ask me to fill out the form but now he also knows that he neither has the desire to study nor is there any more in it, so he has also stopped asking, but believe me, it is enough. I regret most of the things he said to me since college, I am talking about seven years ago. If I had worked a little harder then maybe within a year I would have cracked some government exams, I had this much ability then, but now I had no interest in books at all, and if you tell me the truth, maybe competition. It has also grown a lot and a lot has changed over the years. What kind of decision was this that my parents took for me I ignored it at the time and now I am regretting it.

Our parents are much wiser than us because they are older than us and they have more experience in many things than us, so in this sense, they are wiser than us in every matter, but sometimes parents also make many mistakes. They do it and they don't even realize it. And in this case, I will give my father because he did not do his financial planning properly and due to this we have a debt of lakhs on our heads. It is not that we have to live like poor people. we have your own house in the city. There is a house and the location is also very good. People only dream of building a house in such a place, but if they had done some good financial planning in the beginning, perhaps we would not have to face so many problems. He keeps telling me what to do with money but I don't show that much interest in that. But still, I did feel amazed at what he have done for all of us, It does need so much courage to do all the things all alone.

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I feel very sad and perhaps there was no one to tell him, it is not his fault either because now you have so much information that is easily available but at that time people did not have much information about them nor were there any such schemes where you could invest money. At that time there were very few places where you could invest money. But I believe that if my father, made proper financial planning, and had invested from the beginning of his and made some consistent savings/investments, then perhaps the result would have been different today. This is one thing on which I do not agree with my father because It seems that according to them I can do good financial planning, rest let's see what happens, it is only in the future that I tell how my planning was.

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