Modern Parenthood: Navigating Challenges in a Changing World

Earlier we used to see very big families, the same parents had many children, but now this trend is gradually decreasing and people are having two or only one child. Yes, all this is not happening suddenly, there are many reasons behind it. Gradually today's generation is moving away from their family. Everyone wants to live in a nuclear family and some do so and some are forced to do so. Many people have to leave their homes and go to other cities for jobs and after getting married, they have to take their children with them. Times are changing a lot and people nowadays do not like to live in a big family because it increases the expenses and there are many other things and some people just want to support their family. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages and this also has its advantages and disadvantages.

Earlier we used to see many children in the same family, but now it is very rare to see many children. Most people give birth to only one or two children and if they have a boy on the first try, then perhaps he will be a child. They stop at the same and if their child is a girl first then they try for a boy. Many people have this thinking and there is no dearth of such people around me. What everyone believes is that there is a need for a boy to carry forward their lineage. Yes, but we cannot change everyone's thinking. Believe me, now it costs much more than before to raise anyone, even if it is a child. Earlier we had seen that as soon as a marriage took place, a child was born within a year, but nowadays, considering many things, having a child is the first thing.

Financial Problems:

It is very much in vogue these days and people are much more aware of it and are worrying a lot. Many people do not have children because they do not consider themselves capable enough to afford them right now. Ready for this. Nowadays people wait for many years and decide to have a child and this is also good because they are worried about his future and also want to give him a bright future but many people do not think about this. They keep producing children and even as they grow up, they are not able to award anything good to them and this is a very serious problem. I believe that until you become financially stable, you should not get married or plan to have children because believe me, all these involve a lot of expenditure and as your family grows, so do your expenses. As we continue to grow, keep all these things in mind.

Busy With Work:

Nowadays, most of the husband and wife both have jobs and they do not have time to do anything extra. Most of the time they do not even have enough time in their work to plan for a child and this is the story in the video. Nowadays, if the wife is a housewife then it becomes a little easier to take this decision, but if both are working then no one wants any hindrance in their career and 9 months is enough time in which a lot can change. Yes, nowadays maternity leave is available everywhere but not everyone is ready for it. People's thinking has changed a lot and many people are even willing to adopt children but here it is a very long process. Not being able to have children due to a busy work schedule and paying more attention towards their career is another reason why people are not able to have children.

Taking Care of Babies:

If you live in a big family then if a new guest has come to your house people are very happy and there are many people to play with them and take care of them like their grandparents, uncles and many more. But if you live alone or should I say are part of a nuclear family, then you are only two members and if a third member comes to your family, then only one of you will have to take care of him. Many people, baby. They also hire sitters to look after their children, some on an hourly basis and some for the whole day. If you live in a big family then you do not need to do anything like this because even if you are not at home, the rest of your family members take good care of your child and they also have that experience because they have also learned from you. He has been nurturing and raising so many children before. It is my opinion that if you live in a small family then you should stay with your family and bring your family along with you. This means that one of you gets along with you and you get the support of an elder. It's great to be at home and it helps a lot with things.

The Education fee is high

Do I think it is a big problem and but it is also because nowadays the cost of education has become so high that many people are not able to afford it, the fees in some schools are quite high but the education there is not as per their requirement. it occurs. Everyone wants to send their child to a good school. If everyone wants to send their child to a good school, then for that they have to pay a huge amount in the name of education fees. And believe me, not everyone can do such awards and it is also very sad how the education system is becoming a business. For those who like school, it is a business and it is earning them a lot of money. He doesn't even care whether the children studying in his school are getting any benefit from there or not, just by giving them a degree, it means he is not worried about their careers. Nowadays, schools have opened in every street here and but believe me, their fees are so high that what can be said is that when I was in class 12th, the fees were the same as mine, nowadays no one in the class has the same fees, they have to pay more and this It is surprising. Studying in a good school remains a dream for many parents and perhaps this is why they do not want to have more than one child because they cannot even afford the expense.
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