One thing we all need to learn from our failures in life

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When we determined to complete a task at hand successfully, failures would not stop us from completing it. Normally the nature of human life is to learn from the mistakes and failures and implement a new strategy to achieve the goal you are having. There will be multiple obstacles in between your task at hand and completion of the task. With experience and knowledge we need to achieve the task goal.

Failure is not loss of the life, it's an experience we need in order to achieve what we wanted to achieve. There are so many statements and quotations revolving around failure in life like failures are the steps towards success. But no one would want to be the one tell you this that from our failures we need to gain the knowledge of when to quit also.

I thought I saw this statement online in the perspective of a scientist, someone criticised his scientific experiment by saying you have failed multiple times in achieving certain invention, the scientist replies with I didn't fail, I grasp the knowledge of knowing multiple ways of not achieving his certain invention.

In all those possibilities of failures I came to realize that failures should also make us understand that when you need to quit also. This is also a possibility in finite ways of achieving a task successfully. It's a hard truth, that's why no one is willing to admit it and it makes you look like a discouraging person. This is the reason why people won't share this type of knowledge.

From the beginning of human evolution time, failures are like a type of programming language concept of try and catch. With a number of attempts made towards the evolution of mankind to meet where we are today just because the knowledge provided by the failure persons on how to not to do a task. The different perspective of different person have different opinions to approach a task at hand.

With generations of fail and success, it is good to say that fail and fail until you succeed. It's not try and try until success, since we won't back down from completing a task, we are already trying, it's just a matter of how many failures does it take succeed or how many failures can you bare and finally come up with an idea to innovate things.

In my life one task of mine is to approach people and talk shyless. I'm an introvert who doesn't mingle with new or known people. When it comes to talking I'm not the best person in the room or should I say the last person. When I was in college, I tried to make friends but it didn't happened. At work also I have gotten the same results. I have tried multiple times to talk like an extrovert, but all in vein.

After adulthood, it became clear to me that I can't succeed in this game and it's better to nod when people are talking and try to say no any favours taking advantage of my introvet attitude. Some times all your failures made you realize the when we need to stop trying and it's a blissful thing too because we never know the future.