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RE: Reflections on pride and forgiveness. / Reflexiones sobre el orgullo y el perdón. EN/ESP.
This is a courageous blog, @osomar357. I am quite a bit older than you (and most people on Hive) and yet I have been working on this problem of letting go. Letting go of hurt. It's very hard. And yet, I recognize that by holding on to hurt I'm probably doing myself more harm than the person who caused the resentment. It doesn't feel good to be resentful. It's a burden to carry that feeling around. I'd much rather feel good. So I try to go beyond the hurt. Most people really can't affect my life unless I let them, unless I choose to feel wounded. So I choose not. It's hard, but this is the better way.
Your dialogue is excellent here. It is a roadmap for anyone who has a similar inclination to be offended and to hold onto that sense of offense. I know I leave today more determined to let go, to not be hurt so easily, and when hurt, not to hold onto that. Thank you!
Hi @agmoore, my regards and happy evening.
It's been a long time since we communicated, since I left The Ink Well and due to the lack of participation I've had, in Let's Make a Collage.
It really cost me a lot to make the changes and make this post and other little things, but we have to move forward little by little.
Anyway, there is something you say that is true, one is not harmed by who I want, but by the one or those to whom one allows them, because one is the one who gives importance to the situations that happen, and just as one gives them the power to harm and annoy, in the same way it is taken away.
And there is nothing better than being in peace and harmony, and to achieve that, one must let go of ballast moorings and get away from certain situations and people that do not let one grow in the level of consciousness.
Thank you very much for your words, my best wishes.
!HUG
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