Men

It's funny that the term "Crypto Bro" exists, but there's no such community in the entire web for men and crypto at all.

Believe me, I've looked.

I mean technically it's a very manly thing to be into -- crypto. All that logic and numbers and science; we tend to thrive when it makes perfect sense.

That's why it never made sense to me when my mother told me that you need to be nice to women to attract them, but it would never work out like that.

I was always the king of the friendzone.

It never made any sense,

women never made any sense.

Hell, even my female friends were telling me that the route to her heart was spring up at work with flowers and making some sort of grand romantic gesture.

Yet they would always run away with the worst dude you could ever think of who had the least morals and was never kind.

What I'm describing here is a maturity problem.

You see, men think logically, and in our youth it only makes sense that girls always complain about horrible guys, so logically the route to her heart is through being nice and kind.

Takes us a while and a bit of experience to figure out the truth behind that.

But then women have their own sets of problems too - they are almost always allured by "bad boys" in the beginning and choose badly.

It's only later in life they choose kinder guys through lots of negative experience with "bad boys".

With age comes wisdom (and experience).

Women by nature share their problems and experience with their friends. Women are open, and compassionate, and with the right people tend to have some form of support network with each other that props them up.

There's always some help for women if they want it -- and men also have the natural tendency to want to "save" or "fix" women - so there's always some form of help available when needed.

Of course I'm not saying this is always the case but it's more pronounced for women than it is men.

I say this because for men it's a bit harder.

When we have issues we are told to toughen the fuck up.

And yes, whilst this is what we ultimately need to do -- because in nature we are supposed to be the nest the allows the mother to spread her wings and fly, and a nest needs to be tough to protect it's flock from predators,

But sometimes we just break.

Sometimes you can't toughen the fuck up when you really don't know how to.

There needs to be that stepping stone to the point where you're moving from feeling tender and unloved to listening to guys on YouTube smashing wood over their head and screaming.

This is what the feminist movement got right at the start -- when they began encouraging men to open up about how they feel about their feelings; for broken men that can be at times very cathartic when needed.

Having some friends to talk over your feelings with, male or female is very powerful.

Everyone needs it.

Where the feminist movement went a little nuts though is forgetting that men also need competition; we need to openly compete with our fellow man to feel like we are worthy. We also need to fight, whether that be in the boxing ring or over a YouTube drama session.

Yeah, I'll admit, we are the destroyers of the world, like I was taught in school. But we are also the builders and creators. Everything you see around you was more than likely created by a man.

Of course that's not a slant at women in any way, shape or form. Giving birth and raising the next generation of builders is powerful, hugely powerful.

Sometimes I wish people put more weight on that.

The relationship between man and women is symbiotic.

That's why I created the BRO community in the beginning. Because I wanted to serve men in a way that I knew how. Even if it was just giving them a place to chill out and relax and have some fun.

That's it, nothing more.

To put more love into a world where sometimes it feels like there is none.

But the time has come for me to offer more to my community in the coming months -- for I'm going to begin creating courses in the BRO community on everything I know about "levelling up" in life.

Because it's time I start giving back to my community again.

I hope some of you will join me in that quest!