RE: LOH #243 - The Cost Of Second Chance

Awwww. I feel you. I used to have such thoughts when I was in high school I think. Like why be nice to others when we only get hurt. But years later I realized after my spiritual renewal that it's better to do good than hurt those who hurt us. This prevents more suffering from happening in the world. Not that we become doormats but we also need to speak up and set boundaries for people to know when they are crossing the line and doing bad things to us too.

Meaning in the example you gave I'm glad you still gave her a chance but indeed it's right to stop giving her more chances if she truly doesn't change her bad behavior. It's best to pray for such people too to help them overcome such misdemeanors. Lord knows we all need prayers. 🙏