LOH Contest#188/myself

Hello ladies of hive, I'm glad to be among the participant of this great community on this weeks topic which states

How do people see you? How do you want people to see you?

#First and #foremost, I'm harvodey, I'm a lady, I'm confident and courageous, I believe in myself and I trust my God to be able to accomplish anything I want to. I'm a teacher by profession and I love what I do, I could be very friendly but that's when I'm familiar with you, cause I take time to make friends. But I'm loyal to my selected few. I'm intelligent and hardworking at the same time I'm a very disciplined person.

How people see me, well I may not have too much to say about this but I can only relate to people who are bold enough to tell me what they feel about me. People seeing me from afar sometimes think I'm very quiet and hardly talk, I can be a talkative if you're my #bestie.

Other people think I'm very strict and unfriendly, I actually like to be disciplined and I could be blunt if you're in the wrong especially when you're someone I can relate with, I feel i will be a bad friend if I can't point out your wrong when it's glaring.

A few times when I decided to avoid trouble or let things go, I've been misunderstood for been unable to defend myself or scared, but I'm never a scared person, I only follow the lead of my spirit, I speak when I should and I let go of I have to.

The bottom line is, what people see you as or think about you may not really matter, the most important thing is how you carry yourself and what you believe about yourself.

Though they say in the mouth of two or three witnesses the trust is established, so when most people have a negative comment about your attitude, you should check yourself and adjust when need be.

The general comment about me is you're gentle, cool headed and collected. This is how I want them to see me and I'm fine with it.
Thanks for reading through.

Note: All pictures on this post are mine.