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The social media was initially a platform for a diverse evolution of informations via publications and interactions, legit and false informations could be broadcasted across the globe right from the comfort of ones bed but now, there have been an evolution on social media from sharing of mere informations to sharing conversations and felling attracted to an informer that is regarded distant or virtual because we barely see them in person.
These felling of attraction between two distant or virtual friends varies from person to person depending on how dedicated they have both committed themselves to themselves. Some commitments grow into a best friendship (bestie) or even dating as a relationship.
In the federal capital territory, i came across this couple who got married over the internet. According to Mrs anonymous,
"We knew ourselves as facebook friends, got attracted to each other and extended branches across other social media platforms, dated for a year without seeing each others faces then finally agreed to meet and right now, we are happily married".
This was a statement made by a bride during her reception some years ago in FCT. Indeed, the power of social media is never to be underestimated and i was left wondering how they both made it work out because, these couples were looking absolutely gorgeous I even had to forcefully stop staring at the bride. Then in my mind I asked, God when?
Knowing someone virtually can be quite tricky because you can never know them so well to the point of sharing your heart desires and interests with them. I've had several friends who date online and never met their date in person till they broke up which is very funny and painful.
I've also heard how people become friends online and plan to meet up in the real world and one person ended up loosing his or her life. The most common is meeting someone online, go through their gallery and you can't get enough of how beautiful they look on their pictures but when you finally get to see them in person that is when you will remember that Photoshop and Snapchat were not built for nothing.
The social media is not a perfect place to fish your soulmate or any other kind of hair cream but, the best thing if you develope feeling for a virtual friends whom you've never met before, i suggest letting them know how you feel about them and at the same time let them know that it is just a feeling and nothing serious so they don't take it personal or take you for granted.
Because these days if you mistakenly tell someone how much they mean to you or how you feel about them, that is when attitude comes into play and your feelings get used. So the best you should do if you are very close in location find a safe venue to hook-up and get more acquainted with each other then from there you will know what part to take.
No matter how much you fall in love for a virtual friend online do not be outrageous and never you forget that the greatest love is,
For God so love the world that he gave his only what....?? John 3:16.
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You had me laughing as I can totally relate with "finding love on dating apps"... This was years ago and looking back, I realized how funny and fuck up experience it was. But in the end, I damn learned a lot of things when it comes to dating and men! I did met up a couple of them guys to hook up but nothing lasted π . Oh, life!
This blog would have been great in the community Love & Sexuality! Make sure to explore communities @protokkol!
Haha..π it is really funny whenever I remember how the feeling was and how dedicated we were to each other. But things must just change for changing sake.
Thanks so much @indayclara for the community recommendation, the post was supposed to be for a particular community but mistakenly left on my blog thank you so much for stopping by πβ€οΈ
Agree on things must definitely change!
Your most welcome @protokkol!
you listed some good point there as to how social media can be misleading, you will think you are meeting a pineapple and you will end up seeing lime...
Lol.. yeah buddy thanks for coming byπ
If someone is fascinated by one's personality by reading and watching him/her. Then pause to make the comfort zone - will it be successful? I guess yes as in this social media became a bridge where they can find out the person. But the next step of the analysis, understanding requires the mind not always heart or facial attraction. (But I am not negating that the difference in the beauty occurs - as the filters are scams π)
I just showed up my view as a writer, but yeah online friendship turns horrible because of distances, doubts etc. People can't remain attached for a longer time( as mostly are strugglers who fell victim to this virtual relationship). You can negate my viewpoint. But I accept that online dating and matching apps are scams. At the same time, social media can help you to lessen the problem of your parents who think that who will marry you. π€£
Well done with your post, I had to say a lot about this topic but just thought that it would he post under the post. π¬ππ
@ayesha-malik damn you're hell funnyππ
ππ π Haha.... You will definitely have proof that you were once married or already engaged somewhere on the globe π€£..
I really appreciate your post comment buddy ππβ€οΈ
Hahaha, this is not true about me @protokkol, I haven't experienced this but I have listened to this from my mom π hehe have a good day .
It's true social media is not the perfect place to fall in love and as such one needs to be very careful π₯°
Yes definitely π thank you so much for your contribution πβ€οΈ
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