The Pain of Unanswered Friendship

Hello to my fellow community members,

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Friends are one of the biggest blessings you will ever have in your life. When you have good friends around you, even the toughest times pass easily. But when you are alone, even the good times feel like bad times. Because when there is no one to celebrate your happiness with, it does not feel like real happiness.

Friends, when it comes to friendship, I think I am not so lucky. I recently shared about a friend whom I lost when I was in class 8. And now again, I met someone who became my friend. We used to talk and share everything, but suddenly one day he stopped talking to me. He is not replying to me anymore. I kept asking what happened, but there is no response. I even tried meeting him, but that also did not work for me. So honestly, I do not know what has happened.

But today, I want to say something to all the people who are involved in friendship. If you consider someone a real friend, then please do read further.

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Never leave someone midway without saying anything. Friends, If you are leaving, tell the reason. If you are upset about something, just say it. Express yourself. Because if you do not express yourself and just walk away silently, it is not a good thing. Always communicate and solve whatever has happened between you and your friend, so that later you will not regret it.

Friends, I do not know what went wrong in my case. Maybe it was my mistake, maybe not. I cannot say, because the other person has not spoken to me. All I can do is imagine thousands of situations in my mind. I do not know which one of them could be true, or if something bad has happened to that person. I really do not know. But yes, it is very painful, and one should never do this to someone who trusts and values them.

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Friendship is when you share your things with the other person, when you trust them, and when you do not leave them midway without any reason. Friends, I still do not have any hard feelings against that person. I truly wish the best for him, because for me he is still a friend. I hope he will always be happy and away from all the bad things in life. May God bless him.

But deep inside, I also hope that someday we will talk again. On that day, I want to ask him what went wrong, why all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. Maybe then I will finally have some relief in my heart.

Thank you, friends, for reading my blog till here.

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