Speak Up Before Silence Breaks Your Relationship
Hello everyone,
How are you all? I hope everyone is fine and doing great in their life.
Speaking up in a relationship is something that protects it. Many times, you expect something from your partner, or your partner expects something from you, but one of you fails to deliver. That is when regrets start to build within us, and things slowly become complicated.
The only way to break this tension and stop further complications from building up is to speak up. There is always a moment when you both are alone, so use that time to talk. If there is something you did not like about the other person, say it calmly.
If you feel they might not have liked something about your behavior, bring that up as well. Do not wait for the other person to start the conversation first. It is your responsibility to show up on time for someone you love.
In my opinion, a man should often take the initiative to confront issues in the relationship, but honestly, it applies to both partners. Communication is not about ego. It is about protecting the bond.
One habit I once read about truly inspired me. The couple would talk about their entire day while lying in bed. They would share what they liked and what they did not like.
By doing this regularly, they strengthened their bond and became very comfortable with each other. So even if one day something felt wrong, they could simply speak about it, and the other person would be able to understand and reflect on it.
The real problem today is that people have stopped expressing what they truly feel. Instead of facing tension, they try to escape it. And the harsh reality is that sometimes this escape comes in the form of finding someone else when things are not going well. That is usually when a relationship starts to reach its end.
If you are going through a difficult time in your relationship, take some time alone. Think deeply. Reflect on your own mistakes. Think about what could have been done better. Then go and talk to your partner. Do not assume that building a connection with someone else will fix your problems.
It might make you feel better temporarily. When you are emotionally hurt and someone listens to you and agrees with you, it feels comforting. But remember, when you first met your partner, things probably felt just as good.
No matter if you are a boy or a girl, never try to escape relationship tension by talking secretly to someone else from social media, your friend circle, or anywhere else. There are many platforms today where random people connect easily.
I am not against modern culture, but personally, I feel it has affected the beauty of relationships. It has made it easier for people to look for alternatives instead of fixing what they already have. And sadly, this can damage families and long-term commitments.
If you truly value your relationship, learn to speak up. Do not run away from tension. Face it. Solve it. Grow through it. That is how relationships survive and become stronger over time.
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In the screenshot below you can see my terracore base where we have used 7 attacks and they went decent as none of them were dodged but if the numbers were 200 scraps per attack average then I would have been more happy here.
Our golem overlord base was on penalty and so we won only parts today but today we also reached prestige 23 and I got the new prestige level after a long time in the game.
That is all I did in Golem and terracore base today.
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