Between Responsibilities, Expectations, and Emotions

Yes, I know it was my weekly photography day but today I felt like writing something different because a lot of things have been going on for quite some time and I feel that maybe I should share it, sharing makes the mind feel a little lighter. Generally, I don't like to share whatever I have, I would like to keep it a secret, I am that kind of guy. But I have heard that when something is going on in your mind, you should just write it down, then the burden on the mind gets lightened a little. And this is true because I have tried this many times before and sometimes the situation becomes very awkward and we keep thinking a lot. Actually we keep thinking a lot in our mind and we cannot share everything with everyone so we have to keep it a secret and we should keep it because sometimes we say too much and maybe we regret it later.

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Look, if I talk about a typical Indian man, here you are respected only if you earn, otherwise you are considered a burden, maybe it happens everywhere, I don't know about other places because I don't live anywhere else, I have lived here in India since childhood. Well, I have seen all this around me, which is quite obvious. If you are a boy or a man, then the responsibility of the house falls on you. Nowadays, women also work in the family, girls also work. I have no problem with that, nor will I say that doing this is right or wrong, so that's those are the choices. Anyway, it is a good thing that if there are many earning members in your family, then it is much better. honestly sometimes i think of getting married to a girl who has a job (a government job to be specific), and I will do the household things.

Wherever you work you also face pressure there, it depends on the kind of work you do and a lot of things happen in your company or where you work. And you cannot share everything because this is also not a good thing and there are many things which you do not want to share with your family members or with anyone here. Because many times it happens that the work you do, your family members may not be familiar with it and then if they want to hear you out maybe they do not understand it at all. I feel this is my personal opinion, what do you think about it. Look, wherever you do any job, mistakes happen there, humans do and because we are humans, we do make mistakes, if you were a machine, you may not make mistakes, you do whatever instructions are given to you and you keep doing the same without saying a single word.

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For example, take the example of a button, if you have done its wiring correctly, then if you turn it on, it will be on and if you turn it off, it will be off. This is its only function and it will keep doing this, it does not matter how many times you turn it on and off. Yes, every thing has an expiry date, but if you keep turning this button on and off, it will not say anything to you because it does not have any feelings or emotions of any kind so it does not matter to it. But if we talk about humans here, some people have a very high level of patience and some have less. Those people who have less patience are short tempered and get angry very quickly and some take some wrong steps at that time. Maybe they will regret this later or not, I don't know. And some people are of very calm nature, it does not matter to them how a person is behaving with them. Sometimes, even if we look from outside it may seem to us that this person does not feel anything or it does not matter to him, but everyone has feelings inside them, even if they do not express them to many, but everyone keeps thinking something or the other.

Many times such situations arise in our life that you do not have any option that you can chew something else, so you have to do what you are doing because now you do not have any option, maybe if you had an option then this would not have happened to you. You must have heard that where one door closes thousands open, but sometimes life seems very difficult and it seems that perhaps all the doors have closed or maybe the time for opening of many doors has not yet come I don't know what.

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Well, today was a normal day, just like that. The workload has been quite high for the last few weeks due to which thoughts are coming and it seems that if you do not work then your respect goes down and if you have got respect then maybe you should work and keep moving ahead wearing a good mask. Because if people get to know your reality, how you are in reality or what your nature is, then maybe they start keeping distance from you. I don't know why people like liars more than the truth tellers. I don't like such people very much who tell lies, maybe because of this I make very few friends and I stay away from such people who walk around creating a lot of fake identity or fake show off. Sometimes I feel like leave everything and run away (like if that is even possible , it is not easy to get rid/run away from the responsibilities that easily ). How to be a irresponsible person xd. (can someone help me., sometimes it is hard)

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