I was scrolling on TikTok this afternoon and then I saw your post where a lady was saying that somebody can actually be a free spirit kind of person but become so down and timid when they are working under certain kinds of people I will love to talk about this but I will not limit it only to the work environment. Now what this lady said I can relate to it perfectly because I worked somewhere where basically every body wear on their toes everybody was trying to please the boss who was never pleased you could do one thing and when it seemed perfect something else was talking about it. Now I for one do not believe that we have to "fear our boss". It is one thing to respect your boss it is another thing to fear your boss it is the right thing in fact it is a standard procedure that you respect and honor your boss at all times. In the same vein, I do not subscribe to an employee always being afraid of his or her boss, that was the situation I was in in my former place of work.

Now let's bring this into everyday life, there are days when I wake up and I'll be like oh God I am going to work again it has affected my whole life literally, it affected my routine and everything. It made me shake and judge every action I take because I know someone must criticize every step I take so this is me saying fear does a lot and one of the things fear does is that it cripples an individual's potential, yes I feel people tend to blossom where they find peace, rest, and not fear. This also in the end causes depression and all kinds of mental issues. (When someone is not allowed to be themselves).

WHAT HAPPENS IN THE ABSENCE OF FEAR.

I would have been a certified Cook, a certified interior designer, a really good if not certified shoemaker or should I say cobbler because of fear now fear because my father said no if I do this he is going to do that and I have to stop classes. (I am not saying you should be rebellious or anything towards your parents but fear does a lot.)
Currently I and my mom you are not talking we're not in talking terms simply because she asked me to move back home and I told her no, if it were before, I would be shaking, scared like a little baby, and run back home. In fact! Fear brings bondage, so I would say when there's no fear people live to their fullest. They get to try new things, do what they love, go to new places, and stuff because there is no boundary called "fear" holding them back. That's my reality currently because I refuse to yield or succumb to fear of what's next.
Let me talk about this fear of what's next a little. If you don't cross, push, or dare that situation you would not know what's on the other side.
I know fear sometimes helps to put us in check but....

That ain't for me 😊

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