Be kind but make yourself capable before you do it

Kindness is a great virtue and having it in our personality is a good thing and it makes us better humans. In fact, kindness represents humanity and it can be said that humanity is a form of kindness. Our elders always instructed us to be kind and helpful to others. And I don't deny in that case Some people try to help others according to their capability and sometimes I also have seen that some people try to help others even if they need to suffer for it. I believe that there are very few people who are kind enough to suffer for others.

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Most of the people suffer financial problems and at the present time it's very natural because of inflation. Most of the people need financial help and very few people are capable of helping others because almost all the middle-class families are struggling to cope up with it. Still, there are some people who try to help others by lending money to others but in case of giving money for forever is something rare to see just for the intention of helping. It's because everybody needs the money.

I have seen few people who are going through financial crisis, and they didn't have enough money to support themselves. They had very few left, but still when they saw someone else suffering. They choose to give money to those people. They indeed have a generous heart, and their actions deserve to be appreciated because I don't think anyone can do it. In a world, they cannot see that's suffering of others. Even I have seen people borrow money from others for the sake of helping others, when they didn't have the money to help.

But do you think it is ideal to help others when we need to suffer from it? In maximum cases, we need to face negative consequences while we try to help others when we need to sacrifice for it. I think every person has ways to think about it from different perspectives but I'm going to share what I think about it.

I'm a practical person and in case of taking decisions, it’s rare for me. I think I won't help as a person unless it's extreme condition or a very emergency situation when I'm bound to suffer or sacrifice something for it. Maybe you think I'm a cruel person. If you think about it in that way, then I have no objection and I don't care about what you think. Because you are not going to help me when I am going to suffer or face the negative consequences for it. Most of the time we need to deal with our own problem by ourselves and very few people can offer a helping hand.

If I keep making reckless decisions like that, I think I won't get a chance to stabilize because such kind of habit won't allow me to do something for me on consistent basis. I love to think in a bigger picture. I would love to make myself better and level up my position rather than sacrificing for the sake of helping others. If I can increase my position, I will naturally be more capable and more powerful to help more people. All those things I am discussing here considering the fact that I need to sacrifice something for help. If that's not the case, then I can help others, because I am not sacrificing in that case.

I believe that sacrificing ourselves for others is not the way to help others. Rather than doing that, we should try to make ourselves more powerful and try to be more capable of helping others without sacrificing anything in the future.