The Unseen Struggles Seen In a Marriage

Relationship is a serious matter in which we as human beings Dont take seriously not until we enter marriage or problem before we know relationship isn’t for the weak.

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My story will be based on relative family members who just got married during my days of travelled i decided to travel over to Benin state to stay at my aunt place and build up some work space get to know more about my family.

I arrived the day Saturday which was a day after the marriage was been taken place on Friday as at then I came into the state on Saturday i kind of miss the fun even when I came i didn't sleep I was busy listening to all what happened and how the marriage was sweet and interesting thank God I met the rice the wedding rice I mean and I ate it at least.

So the next day I went to go greet them at their mother in-law house and stayed over there we chatted and have a good quality time that on Saturday it was now on Sunday i was in the room which was assigned for me to sleep i heared voices in the parlor which woke me up in the morning and I stood up going to the parlor to check what was happening as soon I reached the parlor I saw the bride and the groom exchanging words with each other in the parlor and the mother in-law was sitting down trying to calm them down so the husband said what is all these why would She give me slap in the public and next thing was I was shocked and slap keh he later went forward and was explaining that they both left the house going to carry the stuff like pot which was used at the reception and some other loads like that during their arrival there he was the one carrying all load into the vehicle after been done he told her she should come and assist him she was busy making call on her phone the husband was now like are you not the one am talking to she didn’t even answered him and he moved closer to her scolding her to drop that phone and the next thing you knew she landed a direct slap to his face the husband was like what!?

He didnt panicked cause it in public so that the side of the story of the husband and to the female she was defending the fact that why would he be talking to me in that manner In public is been rude me as the spectator i just opened my mouth and was looking ehhh was it not on Friday they just got married at the long run the mother in-law settled the issues and pleaded with the husband not to take it to heart about it.

But it never end there several issue occurred even after that incident the two are always raising voice at each other and quarreling there has been a time I learnt the husband beat her up and mother in laws has to rushed down over there and so much more sometimes I wonder why is relationship been toxic like this if the two parties aren’t contented which each other why did they marry themselves and sometimes you cant know your partner finish not until they both got married.

I have Come to the conclusion relationship can be toxic we can’t understand our partner behavior, character he/she well bringing up you just don’t love someone blindly you need to understand each other very well and agreed on what will fit each other company now i see the reason why most people decide on doing court wedding to
Avoid Mis-abused on relationship if the relationship later become toxic the other party has the right to file a divorce paper not enduring some inhuman beating i Dont even know the word to use for it but anyway we need more practiced before deciding on entering a relation which we later end in toxic after.

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