Friendlationship My Criteria

Heya friends welcome to my blog today trust your week is going smoothly. For me it's been some sort but am grateful to God.
Friends or friendlationship as I posted above.
There's an adage that says
"show me your friend and I will tell you who you are"

Or "birds of same feather flock together"
Growing up I have seen how people abuse the word friendship.
I have seen betrayal and sometimes unhealthy competition.

Picture credit
https://www.pexels.com/photo/group-of-people-standing-on-metal-stairs-3063910/
To me that's not how friends should relate that's why I used the topic friendlationship because in actual fact we are in a relationship as friends we should understand eachother help each other be there for each other. But we know that's not how the world rolls anymore.
People are with someone because of what they can gain from that person.
That's why we see the series of killing and betrayals everywhere now.

Picture credit my phone

My criteria for my friendlationships are

1. God fearing
   A person they doesn't have the fear of God can kill and even do worse frame you up for stuffs you didn't do.
   God over everything. What's the relationship with God and how do they understand the God head. It just about going to church but having a relationship with God someone I can call on and we can pray and agree together and we get results
   So yes my friends must be God fearing.

2. Serious Minded
   Going through life without someone you can trust is risky. More still when you have no support system you can't have unserious people around you life will become frustrating. Your friends should have same thought pattern as you.

3. Dependable
   A friend should be dependable someone I can count on at all times and not when only things are rosey but also when I need a shoulder to rest on. Even the Bible speaks of a friend that sticks closer than a brother.
   And see the four friends that took their friend to be heal a dependable friend should always looking out for my good and not my downfall.

Speak the truth always
My friend should always be free to tell me the truth 😁 and not paint pictures that I will like to see or hear.
A true friend will never speak ill of ones friend or be 2 faced this is the norm now we see in the world there's really no true friendship or friendlationship anymore. Friends sell their friends for nothing just to please their wicked minds.
May God save us from such people 🙏

Have a drive for Life
My friends should have a specific drive to life not taking life as it is bimut always looking for ways to improve one's self so we keep having the same understanding because if one is elevated and the friend isn't this can hurt the friendship and that wouldn't make it a healthy friendlationship.

I can go on and on about my criteria for friend my kind of friends but I will like to stop here for this write up.

A friend should be someone who is relatable reliable responsible and resourceful 💟💟💟