Love vs family what would i really do?

Hello everyone,

This is not an easy topic at all, because things like this is happen every day now you will meet someone you truly love someone who understand you, care for you, and make life feel more peaceful and sweet, but the family say, “No, we don’t want this person.” Just like that, you will find yourself in the middle of two important things your heart and your blood.

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Honestly, if this kind thing happen to me, I won’t just rush and run away with the person because at time in relationships it look some how, that one dey happen in movies, but in real life, things no dey easy like that.because at time in relationships it look some how, hmmm at long run if you run away with the man in future him or her might later change negatively Family is still family. I will first try to understand why they don’t like the person is it because of tribe? Religion? Or they just don't have any strong reason? Sometimes, our families do judge based on their own fears or past experience.

I’ll try to talk to them calmly and explain what I see in the person, this is someone I love, someone that brings peace into my life I’ll also ask them to take time and get to know the person better, sometimes, all it takes is one good conversation for things to change. People fear what they don’t understand.

But if I try all these and they still don’t agree, then I have to sit with myself and think deep. This life na only one. If I give up someone that truly loves me, just to make everybody else happy, na me go suffer the pain. At the same time, I no go like to lose my family, so I’ll pray about it, take advice from someone wise, and think well before I choose.

To be sincere, many people today dey face this kind problem some even marry secretly, some cut off from family some leave their partner just to keep peace at home and later regret me, I no want to live with regrets i want to be with someone I can build future with someone that supports me, respects me, and loves me truly.

So what would I do? I’ll fight for my love, but with wisdom. I won’t fight my family, but I’ll make them understand that I deserve happiness too and if they still no support me, I’ll make my decision based on peace of mind, not pressure ,Because at the end of the day, na me go live with the person, not them.

I just pray that when the time comes, both love and family will be on the same side. But if not, I’ll choose the one that brings me true peace even if it’s not the popular choice.

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