We get carried away by the things we canāt get or havenāt achieved, and we forget to give ourselves some grace. We forget to applaud ourselves for being amazing and being a blessing to others.
What are the kindest, coolest or favourite things you could say about yourself?
Life is too beautiful to constantly complain and beat yourself up for the āwhat-ifsā and definitely too short to look down on yourself.
No matter how bad you think you are or the circumstances surrounding you are, you still have some amazing qualities. Itās so sad that you tend not to pay attention or appreciate these qualities of yours because you're too busy criticizing yourself. Your self-criticism gets in the way of you seeing how much of a good human being you are, not just to your immediate family but everyone around you too.
I have some important traits lined up. The first on my list is empathy.
I like to consider myself a very empathetic person. This trait has helped in making human connections easier and better for me. Empathizing with people sort of happens naturally for me, and it happens every time with or without my consent.
While I cannot solve everyoneās problem at a go, I always empathize with them. A lot of times people donāt need a ton of advice as theyāve gotten a lot of that to last them a lifetime, they just need someone who gets them, someone who is kind enough to put themselves in their shoes, no judgment, no criticism just abundant love.
I donāt only empathize with people I know. I extend it to others too.
While a lot of people may have their reservations about being empathetic, I see it as a superpower that many people lack.
Furthermore, I consider myself a kind person. I donāt know where the world is heading, but I refuse to join the rest of the world in seeing kindness as a form of weakness or foolishness. Iāll continue to tell whoever cares to listen that it doesnāt cost you anything to be kind.
I dislike unkind people and people who have no compassion. I donāt care what you think, but lacking compassion for others is not nothing to be proud of.
I wish people could understand how fickle life is. Being kind does not hinder you from being who you are, instead, it makes you a good person.
Additionally, I am a loveable person, hehehehe sorry to brag but I amš„°
I have so much love in me and I wish I could share it with everyone out there. Itās crazy out there, people are consumed with so much hate that they donāt know what love feels like anymore and thatās so sad.
If you ever find your way into my life and heart, you are locked in and thereās no going back! I call it the IB effect, the little waves of excitement you get from being around me, itās hard to miss and very infectious. Itās when I make you very comfortable and my love and energy radiates over you, lol at this point Iām definitely bragging!šš
In conclusion, I have so many beautiful traits, and I wish everyone who comes in contact with me could experience them.
What about you reading this post, What are the kindest, coolest or favourite things you could say about yourself? Iād love to read your thoughts in the comment section.
There you have it, guys, a little snippet into Ibbtammyās lifeā¤ļø
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XOXO
Wow
Nice traits dear .
We actually share almost same traits,I can literally go out of my way of I could to see someone happy, even though atimes I don't get appreciated that doesn't stop me from being that good girl that I am
Hi Twinnie nice to meet you, where have you been my love??šš
My love I went offline through last month because of exams but I'm back now
Thank you.
I am very happy to know how much love is hidden in your heart for everyone. But I always like to earn love. And I like to motivate myself to keep my loved ones happy. I am a fan of your love.
That's the spirit friend, keep it up!!
Oh yes my friend thank you
That is a really healthy mindset, if only the whole world were and was like that, keep the positive vibes on.
Thank you so much dear friendš
I love the confidence in you and also I will like to share in your abundant love š and I can see that you are really a kind person.
I feel proud of who I am and who I am becoming along the way. I am a very simple and easy going person.
I enjoyed reading this post and I love the kind of mindset you have also.
Thank you for sharing @ibbtammy
Hello @samarijr0 thank you for this beautiful comment, and I am glad to know that you are a simple and easy going person. Keep up the good work.
Such good things to celebrate about yourself. These are virtues worth celebrating, especially in a toxic world as this. We surely need the empathy, kindness and love we can get.
PS. Will be nice to have a taste of the IB effect š
Hehehehe very soon dearieš
Thanks for the lovely comment.
Okayš
You're welcome.
You just make me fall in love with you.
Hehehe thank youš„°