My Ride Or Die, The Process In Finding Me.

I will never get tired of saying this "I am big on friendship" so is my method of selection, my criteria in selecting infact you must tick the boxes before you can be qualified for me to call you my friend, your friends might pick you before you can start hanging out with them but on the contrary I pick mine they don't pick me, I have passed the stage where I follow anybody anyhow just because I want to feel among, yess that's why maturity is essential infact when you get matured at some point the taste you have in selecting friends would eventually change. Enough of that, it was just my little introduction so welcome to my page, hope you all are perfectly doing okay? As for today I would be participating on the contest topic Friendships.

Independence of a person generally comes with a touch of supporters who we call friends, you can't say you are an independent person and you move alone expect if this your independence is associated with being independent without companies, well as for me I love the feeling of Independence, I love the state of being independent and not depending on any man to survive, I tend to buy what I want, when I want it and how I want it without anyone feeling like with them I can't survive but I believe that in the joy of all this there's someone who can share with you in your times of joy, sorrow, laughter, pain, regress and all of that.

There was a time in my life when I let fate decide for me or perhaps take it's course but now I take the will of my life in that aspect, wait... I don't actually do the searching God does it for me because you don't know the heart of a man, I think I have told this story before but let me just give a recap before coming to the university I had told God to go ahead and select my friends for me because only Him has the list of what I like and He also knows the best for me, infact mine was just to meet with the person or person's due to divine alignment that was how I met someone who wasn't divinely planned, we came together but still scattered not until I met my ride or die, she goes by the name is Hannah Miller Menkoh.

Those boxes or should I say standards are associated with my kind of personalities, the first is a God fearing person, a person with visions dreams and plans for the future, a like minded person, a caring person, a well dressed and soft spoken person, a person that's obsessed with me just the way I am obsessed with her (much love), a transparent person, someone that doesn't has unnecessary pride... And when I found Hannah I found that missing part of me, we tend to complement each other in so many ways and I am grateful to God for bringing her my part.

Friendship comes with alot of sacrifices and I hope we would be able to give up alot just as we confess those love. I hope you have a friend like my Hannah 🥰, we really appreciate that you took time out to share in our memories, we love, honour and appreciate you all, see you next time.

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