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RE: THE REWARD FOR HELPING
I feel the same way about helping people. I don’t like it when people count scores. It’s the same thing as giving birthday gifts. I love giving birthday gifts to people but, don’t like people thinking they owe me.
I gave a friend a cash gift early this year and when it got to my birthday we weren’t as close as before. When it was my birthday, she gave me the exact money I gave her as a gift. To me, it felt like she was returning the gift all in the name of giving me a gift. It honestly defeated the essence of the gift.
@hopestylist thanks for sharing such a relatable post.
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Exactly! I’m glad it didn’t end up that I was speaking gibberish, lol.
Most times, people want to repay back gifts or help especially when they are no longer in good terms with them. I was once like that but I have learnt to feel at ease. I’ll only do such when the person directly ask me to return their gifts and if I can afford returning it.
But it is totally lame to ask for a gift back just because you and them are not in good terms again.
Thank you for your beautiful contribution. 💜
Very very lame!
You are most welcome Hope.
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