To believe I recently talked to someone about these issues during the just concluded week.
We were having a casual conversation when suddenly the topic of “Friend” came in.
It was at that time I really did feel like a loner. I've always believed I am better of without a close friend or the regular “besties” thing could do without, for such am doing without it right now haha
About Bestie; I remembered having one tho back in secondary school..
Unlike now where I interact, laugh and smile with everyone but got no one truly.
So you might be wondering what's it about friendship, well the topics didn't mention anything to it right?
True you're right. But then that's what makes me jealous. I honestly hate sharing things I own in high regard with others, Be it materials or living things.
I got familiar with someone here on hive, we picked off so well, that i thought. She's such an honest and easy going person and I guess that's all it took to click.
From the time we got talking, I knew I had found myself a friend not that I was looking for but it just came naturally and I went with the flow just to discover she got her own best friend.
My heart momentarily felt like a broken piece, call it heartbreak💔
Right there the statement “Your best friend Is A Best Friend Of Another" kept ringing in my head and it just goes on that way.
Knowing who her favorite girl was made me jealous. At first I felt pretty bad because it made me look a little down on myself I knew I could offer less to what her best girl could give, it was terrible you know.
Since I didn't dwell much on those thoughts, I was gradually able to accept reality and kept a free mind also reminding myself never to internationally bore hate for another who I barely even know or knows me(referring to her best friend).
I continued to hold her importance even though I was jealous and yes still do. I'm more like a guy feeling as if i got a love rival😅 but in these case it's a friend and am greatful for having her a friend even though we aren't close,i remain happy for the petty talks we still got a few times.
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Thank you 😊
I understand you, but I think you should continue focusing on the good, many of us have shared friends, let's say that I am the best friend of several people and I think I am the same with all of them, I think that friendship is something reciprocal, it is about giving and receiving, so see more of the good, as some say, see the glass half full, greetings from Venezuela.
Oh my! These a whole lot
Many thanks aunty 🤗
Are you that jealous? Omis good to be jealous but not too much lol, 😜 it's good to protect our territory tho, at least you have a friend you can trust, that's cool.
#dreemerforlife
Lol..yes ma'am😅
Ha!! Jealous for best friend keh, shew!!
Wey no b say u dey date somebody, I never hear dis one b4 o, haha
U sef fit go find another bestie na
Oya com and b my bestie 🙄
Simple, matter go close ,lolz
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 @jesus-son again!!!
Allow me breath in fresh air this man🤣
Don't worry about her bestie, just focus on the relationship between you two, I think it is cool that way.
A friend from #dreemport is saying Hello 🤗
Aww.. Thank you sis 😊 😘
You are welcome 🥰😊
I was in a tight corner but my supposed best friend could not come through. She was busy financing her relationship that still ended badly.
Another of my friend we were not even as close came through for me. Then when my supposed besty got her heart broken guess who she ran to? Me.
Then she came back and saw I have moved on with this girl she became jealous and started with the attitude naso I block am 😂🤣😂. It was so creepy even my boyfriends have never behaved liked that.
Just keep being good friends you never can tell what the future holds.
Came in from #dreemport
#dreemerforlife
Oh wow! She wasn't really to give but expected you to always be there.. Some people sha.
Thankfully you got someone at the corner.. I hope i get mine too🙂
I can totally understand how you feel jare, some of us can’t share our friends with others, we just get all territorial and it’s understandable as that’s what love makes us do. Don’t worry you’ll find your own Bestie on Hive soon okay?
Ps: you’re such a sweet girl Tory🥰🥰
Always a #dreemerforlife
Haha... Ill definitely be happy to be friends with my look alike😅😅😅
To imagine i just messaged you bout these not long ago.. I mean through a comment i made on your post
Hehehehe I am game! so where do we start my dearest friend?🥰🥰
You will find your tribe, and when you do, I hope that you will all share a love for each other. It's nice to have a small circle of great friends you are close to... and even have someone you are closest to... but putting everything on one person can be a lot of pressure for them and you. I tend to have different concentric circles of friends... a couple in my very inner circle who are the family I choose for myself, then moving outwards, a few more who I am close to but don't share all my vulnerabilities with... and then moving out further... more casual friends... I share different deeper aspects of myself with various people but very few people get to know me in all my vulnerability. Those relationships are very special though... and filled with mutual trust.
#dreemerforlife
Wow.. You got all of them around your table, you must be a jovial kind to have been able to attract them i think😊
Keep up the good work. 👏🎵
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