WE #268: What Makes Me Feel Womanly, Attractive, and Confident as a Woman!

Good day, everyone!

Today is a great day to share with you my answer to one of @galenskp's weekend-engagement topics!

2. What makes you feel womanly, attractive and confident as a woman and why?

What it means to be a woman is defined in various ways, including by society, culture, and societal expectations. But being a woman means more to me than just being physically attractive or conforming to societal expectations. It's about staying loyal to myself, accepting my journey, and understanding who I am. My answer to the issue of what makes me feel attractive, womanly, and confident as a woman is based on my independence, self-awareness, and determination.

First and foremost, my freedom makes me feel confident and feminine. By society's standards, I may not be the most attractive lady in the room, and that's fine. I don't need to be. Living a self-sustaining existence is more essential to me. I manage my time, pay my bills, and work hard as a teacher to shape young brains every day. I am proud of that sense of responsibility and dependability. It gives me a sense of empowerment as well as strength, capability, and groundedness, all of which I associate with a confident woman.

I feel free since I can take care of myself and do not require assistance from others. The goal is to show myself that I am capable of building a life for myself, not to prove anything to others. I am capable of overcoming obstacles, finding solutions, and starting each day with a sense of purpose. Because of that sense of control and freedom, it is more enticing on a spiritual level than on a physical level, because a confident woman emits true beauty.

My enthusiasm and dedication to my work are other characteristics that contribute to my sense of femininity and confidence. As a teacher, I not only teach subjects but also help foster dreams. I mentor kids in both life and academics. One of the most powerful qualities of being a woman is her nurturing nature, which enables her to inspire and uplift others. I derive great satisfaction from watching my students grow, learn, and become better versions of themselves. And I feel attractive and proud because the fulfillment comes from within.

I've realized that confidence does not come from excellence. It stems from development and acceptance. I've accepted the reality that, while I may not have the most beautiful skin, the curviest body, or the most up-to-date fashion sense, I do have a good heart, a strong mind, and the tenacity to go through difficult times. I have overcome fear, failure, and grief. And each scar has helped shape me into the person I am today. I am confident because of that strength, that quiet, unwavering determination. That makes me feel desirable.

Finally, I feel more like a woman when I see my tenderness and sensitivity as strengths rather than flaws. I cry when I'm hurt and pick myself up when I'm broken. I am passionate about giving, feeling, protecting, nurturing, and loving. These sensations are not a burden; instead, they are a reflection of the incredible diversity of being a woman. I am very proud of my ability to be both forceful and compassionate simultaneously.