My personal opinions to living a worthy life

Life is full of challenges, and every human has one or two phases they are passing through that aren't pleasant.

MY THREE PERSONAL OPINIONS

Comparison is the thief of joy

In a world dominated by social media in which everyone wants to be like celebrities they watch online. They want to flaunt their wealth and live a luxurious life but when things don't go as planned, some lose it in the end and make a grievous mistake by taking their lives or running into depression. Many refuse to understand that life is not a competition. Everyone's journey is shaped by different backgrounds and challenges.

Measuring one's life with others only leads to frustration. Social media now makes it look like one is not good enough. Seeing a nineteen-year-old boy driving luxurious cars, every other teenager out there would want to be like him, forgetting they had different routes to life. Comparison creates a mindset where our self-worth depends on being better than others rather than being content with who we are. Comparison robbed us of our joy, not because anything has gone wrong, but because someone else's success is wrongly perceived as a threat to our own.

True joy comes from within, believing in your ability, recognising your efforts and progress, and being at peace with your pace, not looking sideways at others, but rather focusing solely on your little steps that are making a big difference. There's room for everyone to shine, and your life doesn't have to look like someone else's to be worthy. That's the power of contentment not from achieving more but from appreciating what you already have.

People matter more than things

This is the truth that many choose not to believe in. Material things such as cars, houses, and even wealth bring comfort but can never replace human connection. At life's most important moments, most of these material things fade away, leaving one with love, friendship, and meaningful relationships for those who cherish them. In celebration or in crisis, it's people we turn to not possessions. The truth that many fail to realise becomes reality in times of loss, illness, and hardship. A person who is loved and supported can endure and overcome any form of challenge.

Material things can always be replaced. I remembered when I graduated, all of my family and friends celebrated me which made me so happy and also feel valued. The presence of my parents, friends, and partner has an emotional impact on my life. Relationships built on love, kindness, and empathy provide safety, healing, and joy that no objects or things can deliver. Memories with one's loved ones outlive those of material things. Appreciating the real and genuine people in one's life builds stronger connections. Acts of kindness become more important than showing off wealth. True wealth lies in the hearts we touch, not the things we own, it's who we have that makes life meaningful.

Life isn't fair but it can still be beautiful

Sometimes I wonder and ask myself, Why do bad things happen to good people? Some are born with golden and silver spoons those are the wealthy nd rich. They have everything at their beck and call while some have to struggle so hard because their lives depend on it. Even in the unfairness, some still find joy, happiness, hope, and strength to move on. Acts of kindness and compassion towards one another give room for hope of a better tomorrow. Life's beauty is found in resilience, and choosing to see beauty in the unfair world is courage. Despite the pain, life is worth living due to some little things such as relationships, the presence of hope, and connections.

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Here are my three opinions that I believe others should know and live by for a fulfilled life.

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