Not Everyone Fits My World, and That's Okay Now

If I saw the prompt a few months back, I would think there is nobody I can't relate with, and skip the prompt. That's because I use to be the type of person who thinks being good to everyone is a must, even if it's against my wish or my beliefs.

I feel little regret when I think back to those times because I somehow spent most of my lives living it for the wrong reasons because I wanted to please people. So that brings me to the prompt now, with a mindset that is finally shifting to favour myself while I still try to serve others.

What type of people do I have trouble relating to and why?

They are a lot of people like that for me. It's not that I don't relate with them somehow but it's a bit of a trouble compared to some other people who just fit in with my thoughts or beliefs lovingly. I may not mention all but these ones came to mind immediately I read the prompt.

I can't relate with people who get tensed up at every slight discomfort, call it "impatience".

I am aware of all the excuses or valid reasons they tell me for them being that way, but I can't understand why that should be a thing in people who actually need to be a bit more patient. They are always in a hurry, rushing through things and always quick to judge every person or situation.

I may have had times when I wasn't patient and I will still have some in the future, it's human. But I'm directing this to those who have accepted it as a fate or way of life, trying to rush people into things because they are not patient or don't want to slow down. I can't relate to how they think.

I can't relate with people who are ungrateful.

Not being aware of a good someone has done and not showing gratitude is different from being aware and not showing gratitude. I can't relate to people are very much aware of someone's kindness towards them, even in the smallest ways, and still act like it never even happened.

They act like it was nothing and they would have been better off without the help. One thing I've learned in life is, being grateful open doors for more of such to come to one's life. So I don't get how some people don't see the need to say "thanks" or even show some signs of gratitude.

I can't relate with people who talk non stop. People even run from them when they have things to do because they know their kind of person. I can't relate with people who take everything seriously, no fun and I can't relate with people who try to make people be like them.