The Bad Habit That Dawned On Me

Happy weekend great community 🎉

I am someone who believe so much in not hurting people especially those who are close to me as either friends or family with my act or whatsoever. Probably I care too much or it's just a normal thing or way to feel about those you care about.

However, I think I've come to contradict that unintentionally with one act I actually didn't know could go a long way in hurting those I care about. In as much as it might have saved me in some situations or made me see people for their bad behaviour right before they even get to show themselves in their bad manners, it has also made me question the feelings of my loved ones and that act is simply ASSUMPTIONS.

Assumption is something I came to realize that I have after several conversations with different people and at first I thought it was good cos I was able to predict situations or people beforehand.

This is something I've talked about briefly once on @samhangout during one of the weekend engagements and I came to realize that I actually wasn't the only one on this table of assumptions.

Entering into 2026, its part of my resolution to not assume for anyone either to defend them on something bad they did or a situation I foresee coming no matter how obvious it may seem or the chances that might call for assumptions. I would allow them spill it themselves or do what I'm supposed to do and question whoever I'm supposed to question rather than assuming on their behalf.

I'm still working on getting more better as I'm not off it totally and I hope that by the end of this year, I will be able to stand firm in honour to say I was able to shove away that act from me.

I'll be dropping my 🖊️ here on the Weekend-experiences community prompt.

Thanks for reading through 🤗

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