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RE: The Art Of Playing The "Longevity Game"
@sekani67
(edited)I don't even know where to start. I've had issue with this longevity thingy and I have been reading it wrong.
Funny I was just ruminating on it this morning!
It's exactly as you explained, we don't let people get close, for me, even if they don't have "bad" impressions, I usually expect great "vibes". I realized I might've had cool relationships with some people if I didn't think that way. Thinking that way unconsciously made me push them away and it becomes the usual hi hi, hello vibes. So bad some of the "great vibes" don't even work out eventually.
And my attempts at being intentional (mostly with old friends) eventually makes me overwhelmed sometimes. Finding a balance is difficult 😂 (for me)
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I must tell you that we cannot completely attain 100% balance or rightness when it comes to the relationship we have with people. Sometimes they falter, sometimes it's us that falters. But at the end of the day, we cannot achieve perfection. This is why we should hope for the ability to discern intentions even if it's generally hidden. Intentions often define people. Hope to have people who will be intentional about you.
I guess we're all human afterall, perfection is not possible, we can only do our best.
Prayer request (God abeg) 😂🤲🏾. I have a couple of intentional friends and I can attest that it's beautiful 🤭
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