Never Put Your Full Hope On People For Financial Support

Putting too much hope and trust on people seems like a wrong decision to take most times because the people we intend having the trust to get help from can fail at any time which we need to take caution to avoid being heartbroken or sad when it happens.

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When people we trust promise to fulfill something and end up giving excuses always end in regrets and the reason behind such most times is when we don't have other reliable source to depend on or use to solve our problems especially when it involves financial help.

I remember when I lost my father few years back, there have always been this particular set of people we always look up to for help when we are in need and it is not that we intentionally want to depend on them for help but they insist in supporting so that we won't lack anything financially since my dad was no more.

This relatives however were financially stable that I thought that I wouldn't lack anything I need if I reach out to them for help. It was then I noticed that some things are easily said than done because our mouth utter things freely but becomes difficult to fulfill what is being said. The more I try to reach out to them for help the more their response ends in excuses.

This have really taught me a lesson not to put my fully hope in people because human beings are meant to fail since we aren't perfect at all. The fact that we have people who are financially stable don't mean we are also financially ok because everyone have what they face in life so it is a wrong mindset to reason that way but to have a mindset in making our own money.

I really don't like the fact that people promise to fulfill a particular task and at the end of it they fail to fulfill the promise. It is more preferable to keep the help to ourselves if we can't fulfill it at the end of the day because playing with people emotions and intelligence is never worth it. This kind of act can be seen differently because to some people this can be related to as show off or oppression to deceive people.

If we aren't capable to fulfill something then there is no need saying it out at the first place because the people expecting this promises have put a lot of hope in it and when at the end of it there nothing to receive it weakens one's emotions and mindset. A bird at hand as they say is better than ten in the bush which insinuate that we shouldn't put too much hope on stuffs that is not sure we would receive.

Human beings can change at anytime where something unexpected can happen that can lead to the aim of reversing their promises which also depends on the situation involve. Some can be delibrate why other scenario can be issues that affects it but then to avoid putting too much hope on that, we just need to pretend that such promises didn't occur because it can be changed.