Letting People Win Arguments on Purpose
Well, frankly, I wasn't that sort of a guy who would let others win arguments against me. I don't know if this was an ego's problem. I remember when we used to argue among cousins, neither the cousin would let us win nor do I.
The result of which would have been an atmosphere that wasn't pleasant. I don't know if age factor was also a reason for it as it was some years back when we were into our teens or twenties.
Now, that we are into our thirties, getting married, I feel like I have developed that sense of compromisation (I don't know if that's the right word to quote). I feel like I am more at peace right now.
For the things I used to argue at, sometimes getting annoyed doesn't exist much now. And I have felt it in recent years indulging into arguments and letting others go with it.
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I do feel like I am not yet at that stage when you let people win arguments on purpose. I don't know if I hopefully get to that stage as well.
Letting people win arguments on purpose has a mental impact as well. You feel more at calm and peace. When you develop a sense of compromisation and don't get into a useless stuff of endless arguments, you feel more at peace. You are actually feeding your mind with a healthy dose. When you develop this habit consistently, train your mind to adopt to peace, this is going to help you very much in future.
That do have a good impact on one's mental health. And on the other hand, other people also feel easy around you by finding you as more cool and calm personality. They will like you for that.
This is the behavior that is going to help you in wherever you are, either you are doing your business interacting with others, at office, traveling etc.
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Deciding whether to yield or assert oneself in arguments depends on the situation. Allowing others to win can be helpful when the stakes are low and the argument is not worth pursuing. This can maintain positive relationships and prevent unnecessary conflict. However, in some cases, it may be crucial to defend oneself and resist exploitation or manipulation. It's crucial to strike a balance between being assertive and compromising to achieve personal goals while preserving positive relationships.
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Pretty much agree with that
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Constantly arguing is just a waste of time. Nothing is truly gained from it and it doesn't make sense to waste energy on something that, unless its life changing, is not a big deal. There are times I think 'Maybe I gave up too easily' but if I know the person won't listen to any other voice besides their own then it's easier for me to just say 'Okay' and walk away. The famous quote from Bruce Lee 'Be like water' helped shape my mindset in my teenage years and has probably prevented toxic relationships and bitter feelings that might have sprouted through continued arguments between friends and family.
Mental health is an important factor for a person and you're trying to avoid things that would damage that. I applaud and thank you for sharing this.
Thanks mate for sharing your thoughts
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