Correct abnormalities when you see one.

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‎I went to church the other day and I sat close to a woman and her son. The son was a boy of about 10 to 13 years of age. The only problem I had with the boy is that, he could not control himself and sit one place. He was busy moving around, touching things and people and personally, I hate someone who is not coordinated. The funny part is that in all these, the mother was busy smiling without doing anything, I kept quiet.
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‎At a point the boy touched me without no reason and smile, I looked at him and ignored as if nothing happened and he was busy smiling, the mother only told him to stop that. I didn't say a word, I only assumed it was a mistake. As the church was still going on, the young guy stepped on my toes , that was the second time . I grabbed him by the t-shirt, dragged him to myself , the mum was still look, I told him " if you try that nonsense again, I will give you a knock and you will calm down " , at that point he noticed I was not there to joke with him like the mother. And throughout the church service he was calm whenever he shifted near me. I noticed he kept doing the nonsense and acting anyhow when he left the row that we were sitting, but never tried that when he came close.
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‎At times we joke and smile too much with our children over a negative character that should have been addressed with immediate effect . And they might think it's normal and grow with the nonsense behavior, which might letter become a problem to you the parents and by extension others. Let's always try and correct abnormalities when we see one.
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