As arrogance accumulates, the relationship moves away.

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Arrogance accumulates in a relationship in a way that often hurts more than words. Arrogance starts from small misunderstandings, lack of words, or a slight difference in wants and needs. At first, it seems that he will understand and nothing needs to be said. But with time, those unspoken words become mountains. One day, it is seen that both of them are silent. No one is telling anyone anything, no one wants to know anything. But deep down, both of them are in pain, both of them are waiting. Maybe one thinks to himself that if he had just come and asked how I am, the other thinks, you are being arrogant, you should tell me first. This competition, this ego gradually swallows the relationship.

The more arrogance accumulates, the heavier the mind becomes. At some point, that arrogance no longer becomes the language of love, but rather creates distance. Yet how close both of them were once. It would not have worked if they were not together, if they did not talk once in a day, they would have been upset. And now? It's as if we don't even exist in each other's lives. It's hard to understand when this distance began. But when it ends, a very quiet sadness surrounds us. Then I think, Oh my! If I had told you earlier, if I had listened earlier, if I had been a little more patient, maybe the relationship wouldn't have gone this far.

The hardest part is that there is still love. That's why the pride is so deep. Because if no one cared, if there was no expectation from anyone, there wouldn't have been any pain. This pride proves that we still feel a lot. Yet nothing is said with our mouths. We wait, our hearts break, but the relationship is no longer the same. In this way, unspoken words, accumulated pride, and a kind of silence slowly take a relationship to a place from which it becomes difficult to return. Yet a little understanding, a little talk, a little courage, all that might have changed that pride into love. So sometimes, without being silent, it is necessary to say, I understand your pride, come closer. Because a lot of love could have survived if those prejudices had been broken a little earlier.

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