Letting go hurt, but it was the best decision.

Letting go hurt, but it was the best decision. Compliments of the season everyone. Thank you for stopping by my blog. The theme says, What did you let go of that you are happy about? Everyone has one or two things that he or she cherishes so much, but for the sake of sanity, have you let go, I used to have someone I loved and cherished so much too, but then I was taken for granted.

So many years back, I had this man in my life; as of then, I could say he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, because he paid my school fees and also was feeding me without asking for anything in return. Along the line we found love, he was a very sweet soul, but he did something that made me question my worth, so in the process of our relationship he asked me to inform my family, my older siblings that he is coming to officially introduce himself as my man, I was very happy, and I called everyone to inform them of the development, quest what, when the day came for us to go see my family, his line was swatch off till the next day, and when he eventually called, he didn't apologized or explain what happened, I let go and we continue the relationship, infact there are so many things I don't know about him, like in our one year of relationship, I have never met any of his family members, not even spoken to any.

So after my school we lost contact. I went for my NYSC. After 3 years, I got a call from him again, asking what I was doing. I told him I was learning a skill, so he asked that we meet and talk more about life and how he can help me. Then he was living in Abuja while I was in Plateau State, so he asked me to meet him in Abuja. I risked my life and traveled all the way from Jos, Plateau State, to Abuja to see a man I knew nothing about, and my family didn't know him either. Hmmm, love can be crazy at times.

On getting there, he took me to a place, not his house, a rented apartment, with a very disgusting kitchen, with a pot full of maggots. Well, I refused to use anything in the house, and when I had left, he called to tell me that he was testing to see if I was wife material, but I failed him, but he is ready to give me another chance to prove myself. At that moment, I knew that I had to let go no matter how much I loved him; he is not worth me, and I blocked him till this date. So yes, I let go of my relationship, and I don't regret making that decision. Thank you for stopping by. See you next year.