Don’t be a helicopter parent.

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Being a parent is one of the happiest feelings in this world. I was really excited when I first felt like a father. It's a feeling I can't explain. Anyway, my children are slowly growing up and I am constantly having to teach them different things. Whenever these teaching issues come up, we parents make several mistakes.

Remember, not every child will have the same mentality, and not everyone will listen to everything you say. You can teach a child who is extremely naughty just like him, and you can teach and guide a child with a calm nature by behaving in a way that is consistent with his mentality.
You should never force a child to learn anything. If you think you can force children to learn anything, you are living in a fool's paradise.

You can certainly discipline your child, but it has to be reasonable and gentle. You can never force him to give you the right and good education. Children have tender hearts, so we must make every effort to teach them with love and kindness.

Never over-monitor your child, it will be counterproductive. One thing is that children will make mistakes in some places, and from these mistakes they will gradually learn and move forward. But if you constantly disturb that child by over-monitoring him, it will be seen that that child may eventually become spoiled and walk a different path.

First, to make a child a good human being, one must pay close attention to his mentality, behavior, and other aspects, and then gradually improve his learning areas. My son Eyan is still three and a half years old. He loves to run around and play all the time. Sometimes we really get a little annoyed because of his overly naughty daughter, but then when we think about how old she is to play and be naughty now, I really don't accept everything as a father And pick him up lovingly. Now, if I had beaten this child to calm him down and threatened him too much, the direction his mental state would have taken would certainly not have been good for him.

My daughter Elma is 9 years old. She is quite inattentive in her studies and prefers to play sports and look at her mobile phone all the time. Besides, he doesn't want to eat nutritious food at all. Still, she is getting fairly good marks in her exams, but my wife is still not very satisfied. She wants our daughter to get much better marks in her exams. I always try to convince my wife that a test score is just a number, but the knowledge she is gaining today is the greatest achievement of her future life. Gradually, my wife accepted my words and stopped over-monitoring and pressuring my daughter.

I want to give my children some space and constantly teach them what they love to learn. However, I believe that humanity and truthfulness are the greatest lessons in worldly life, so I try to teach them these two things. Moreover, I try to give utmost importance to their opinions and occasionally ask them what they want to be when they grow up. I never dream of my daughter or son becoming a doctor or engineer. I would be happy to see exactly what they want to be. It is never right to impose anything unreasonable on children, and excessive supervision plays a leading role in leading them astray.

I am Shopnil Hasan, From Bangladesh. I am Mechanical Engineer. I work with machines as a profession and blogging is my passion. My hobbies are gardening and traveling to new places. I am nature lover. Love and Simplicity is my power ☘️